Book Club Night Kit
Bad Words
Rioghnach Robinson
Cozy night
A tender, funny, big-hearted love story about the gap between what we say and what we mean, told with enough warmth that you will want to talk about it with your hands wrapped around a mug. It is the rare novel that is both easy to sink into and impossible to stop discussing.
Bring Your Softest Jumper, We Are Talking About Words
We are reading Rioghnach Robinson's Bad Words, and there will be toast, mac and cheese, ginger loaf, and a kettle that never goes off. Come as you are, finished or not, and bring one word you love and one you cannot stand.
Reading level: Moderate
Pages: 394
Best for: A club that likes to read with a blanket on their knees and talk about their own lives as much as the book
Discussion
Warm-up
- 1.Where did you end up reading most of this one, and did you have a go-to snack or drink in hand while you did?
- 2.Before we go anywhere else: what is a word you secretly love the sound of, and one you would happily never hear again?
Digging in
- 1.The title promises bad words, but the book keeps showing how slippery that label is. Which word in your own life has flipped from bad to fond, or fond to unbearable?
- 2.This is a love story told largely through how people talk to each other. Which small exchange made you put the book down and just sit with it for a second?
- 3.There are moments here where someone says the wrong thing and the world does not end. Did that comfort you, and has anyone ever been that forgiving with your wrong thing?
- 4.When the book made you laugh, what kind of laugh was it (relief, recognition, surprise), and what does that tell you about where you were sitting emotionally while reading?
Going deep
- 1.Robinson keeps circling the idea that the honest sentence and the kind sentence are not always the same one. Where in your own life have you had to choose between them, and did you choose the way the book would?
- 2.By the last stretch, the book quietly asks what it costs to keep loving someone who sees you clearly. Without giving anything away, did reading it leave you feeling braver or more careful about being known?
On the table & to sip
To eat
Build-your-own buttered toast bar (soda bread, good salted butter, honey, sharp cheese, marmalade)
Toast is the universal language of being looked after, and a nod to the author's Irish name and the book's homey intimacy. Low effort, endlessly fussed over, and it keeps hands busy while people talk.
A big tray of mac and cheese with a crunchy top
Comfort in its purest form for a book about tenderness surviving a lot of clumsy talking. Make it ahead, pull it out warm, let people go back for seconds without asking.
Sticky ginger loaf with softly whipped cream
Warm and a little spicy, like the book's humour. Sweet enough to feel indulgent, sturdy enough that a slice survives being gestured with mid-sentence.
To sip
Honey and lemon hot whiskey
The classic cure-all for anything that aches, poured small and sipped slowly. Perfect for a book that treats repair as its central act.
Milky spiced chai, kept warm on the stove (no alcohol)
The non-alcoholic anchor of the night. Endlessly refillable, smells like the house is on your side, and gives quieter members something to hold.
Elderflower and prosecco spritz, light on the fizz
A soft, floral sparkle for the love story part of the evening, served in whatever glasses you own rather than anything matching.
Run of show
7:00
Door, mug, blanket
Hand everyone a hot drink before they take their coat off. Pile throws on the back of the sofa so people actually use them. No seating plan.
7:20
Toast bar opens
Let the first twenty minutes be food and life updates. Resist starting the book talk. The book will come up on its own, it always does.
7:40
Warm-up words
Go round with the favourite word / least favourite word question. It takes ninety seconds per person and gets even the shy ones laughing.
8:00
The heart of it
Work through three or four theme questions. Pull out the mac and cheese here so people can eat while they listen. Silences are fine.
8:40
Ginger loaf and the deep end
Dessert first, then the two deep questions. Say out loud that nobody has to answer, and watch everyone answer.
9:15
Scorecards, trivia, drift
Fill in cards together, read out the funniest answers, run trivia as a lazy group effort rather than teams. Let people leave when the mugs are empty.
Host tips
- Say early that nobody will be quizzed on whether they finished it. A cozy night dies the moment someone feels caught out.
- Keep a kettle on and a second pot of chai going. Refills are the cheapest hospitality trick there is and they reset a flagging conversation.
- Have a notebook on the table for the inevitable tangent of everyone's favourite and most hated words. People will want to read it back at the end.
Playlist
Low lamplight and wool socks: hushed vocals, close-mic'd guitar, and the occasional song that makes someone stop talking mid-sentence.
- 01 Only Skin - Joanna Newsom
- 02 Lay It All on Me - Lisa Hannigan
- 03 The Blower's Daughter - Damien Rice
- 04 Northern Sky - Nick Drake
- 05 First Love / Late Spring - Mitski
- 06 Saturn Returning - Villagers
- 07 Promise - Ben Howard
- 08 Tongues and Teeth - The Crane Wives
Trivia
- 1.In what year was Bad Words published? (2026.)
- 2.Roughly how long is the novel? (394 pages.)
- 3.Which magazine's review called it 'a masterpiece of a novel' and 'a thought-provoking, vulnerable and incredibly entertaining love story'? (Stylist.)
- 4.The author's first name, Rioghnach, comes from which language tradition? (Irish (Gaelic).)
- 5.Three adjectives from the Stylist quote are used to sell the book. Name any two. (Any two of: thought-provoking, vulnerable, entertaining.)
- 6.What broad category is the book shelved under? (Fiction, and more specifically a literary love story.)
- 7.The title plays on a phrase usually aimed at children. What is the everyday meaning of 'bad words'? (Swear words, or language you are told not to say out loud.)
- 8.Stylist's review labels the book with one very high-praise noun. What is it? (A masterpiece.)
Bookmarks
Print, cut, and tuck one at every seat, a small keepsake from the night.
Rate the book
Warmth☆☆☆☆☆
Made me feel seen☆☆☆☆☆
Writing I wanted to reread☆☆☆☆☆
How badly I needed a cup of tea☆☆☆☆☆
Would press into a friend's hands☆☆☆☆☆
One word for this book (good or bad): ______________________
The page I stopped on just to feel something: ______________________
Who I thought about while reading it: ______________________
That's a wrap
Thank you for coming
We hope the company was good and the conversation even better. Until the next chapter.