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Book Club Night Kit
Contend

Contend

Philip Anthony Mitchell
Cozy night

A novel whose very title is a dare, Contend sits with people who are wrestling (with circumstance, with themselves, with what they believe they deserve) and asks what it costs to keep going. It is the kind of book that makes a room go quiet and then very talkative.

Soup, Blankets, and One Stubborn Book

We are reading Contend by Philip Anthony Mitchell, and then we are putting chili on the stove and talking about it until the candles burn down. Come in your softest clothes, bring whatever you underlined, finish the book or do not.

Reading level: Moderate

Best for: A close-knit club that likes books with heart and does not mind getting a little tender in the living room

Discussion

Warm-up

  1. 1.Before we talk about a single page: where did you read this one? Couch, commute, bed at 1am? Set the scene for us.
  2. 2.The word 'contend' can mean to fight, to argue, or to insist something is true. Which of those three did the book feel like to you while you were reading?

Digging in

  1. 1.Was there a moment where you wanted to reach into the book and just sit with someone for a minute? Tell us about that moment and what you would have said.
  2. 2.Mitchell writes about people carrying weight. Which page felt the heaviest in your hands, and did you need to put the book down for a bit afterward?
  3. 3.Where did this book offer you comfort, even in small doses? A line, a kindness, a quiet scene. Where did it let you breathe?
  4. 4.Did reading this remind you of someone in your own life who contends quietly and does not get credit for it? You do not have to name names.

Going deep

  1. 1.By the time you closed the book, had your sense of what 'winning' means shifted at all? Share gently and without giving anything away about how things land.
  2. 2.If you could leave this book on one person's nightstand, whose would it be, and what would you write on the little note tucked inside? Keep the note spoiler-free, like you actually mean to give it.

On the table & to sip

To eat

Slow-cooker chili with a tray of cornbread squares
Food for people who have been through something. It cooks itself all afternoon, feeds a crowd from one pot, and nobody has to balance a fancy plate while talking about hard feelings.
A big board of grilled cheese triangles, cut small, with tomato soup in mugs
Pure comfort shorthand. Soup in a mug means one free hand for the book, which matters when people start flipping to passages they dog-eared.
Warm apple crumble, served in whatever bowls you own, with ice cream going soft on top
The dessert equivalent of someone telling you it is going to be okay. Serve it at the turn into the deep questions so the hard part of the night tastes sweet.

To sip

Honey and cinnamon chai, kept warm on the stove (no alcohol)
Non-alcoholic and endlessly refillable. Put a ladle in the pot and let people serve themselves, which quietly gives shy readers something to do with their hands.
Hot buttered cider with a cinnamon stick
A spiked mug for a book about holding on. Warm, a little indulgent, and it makes the whole house smell like staying put.
Red wine, one bottle, poured generously
Keep it simple and unfussy. One good everyday red is more in the spirit of this night than a tasting flight.

Run of show

7:00
Door open, soup on, nobody rushed
Chili and chai already warm when the first person knocks. No greeting speech. Hand them a mug and point at the couch.
7:20
Warm-ups over full plates
Run the two warm-up questions while people are still eating. Mouths full means short answers, which keeps the pressure low and gets every voice in the room early.
7:45
Theme questions, drifting not marching
Pick three of the four and let them wander. If the room lands on one question for twenty minutes, that is the night working, not the night going wrong.
8:25
Crumble break
Hard stop on discussion. Everyone up, stretch, dessert, refills. The break resets anyone who got a little emotional on the heavy question.
8:45
The two deep ones, blankets encouraged
Dim a lamp, lower the music, bowls in laps. Open with the nightstand question if the room feels shy, the 'winning' question if it feels brave.
9:20
Scorecards, trivia, and a soft landing
Pass scorecards around, run trivia as a loose group game rather than teams, pick the next book, and let people linger. Nobody gets hurried into their coat.

Host tips

  • Say out loud at the start that nobody has to finish a thought or the book. This one asks a lot of readers, and permission to pass keeps people honest instead of performing.
  • Keep an unclaimed throw blanket on every seating surface. It sounds silly, but people talk about heavy things more freely when they are physically comfortable.
  • Ask the heaviest question before dessert, never last. Ending on crumble and the nightstand question sends everyone home warm rather than wrung out.

Playlist

Low lamplight, fingerpicked guitar, a voice that sounds like it has been up all night and decided to keep going anyway. Keep it under the conversation, never over it.

  1. 01 Hard Times Come Again No More - Mavis Staples
  2. 02 Keep Me in Your Heart - Warren Zevon
  3. 03 Hold On - Alabama Shakes
  4. 04 I Shall Be Released - Nina Simone
  5. 05 Ain't No Grave - Crowder
  6. 06 Rivers and Roads - The Head and the Heart
  7. 07 Stubborn Love - The Lumineers
  8. 08 A Change Is Gonna Come - Sam Cooke

Trivia

  1. 1.The title is a verb. What does 'contend' most commonly mean? (To struggle or compete against something, and also to assert or argue that something is true.)
  2. 2.What Latin root is 'contend' built from? (The Latin 'contendere', meaning to stretch or strain, from 'tendere' (to stretch).)
  3. 3.What is the noun form of 'contend' that means a disagreement or dispute? (Contention.)
  4. 4.A one-word title like Contend is sometimes called what kind of title in publishing shorthand? (A single-word or monolexical title, a common convention in contemporary fiction.)
  5. 5.In literary terms, a story driven by a character's struggle against their own mind or convictions is called which type of conflict? (Internal conflict, also known as character versus self.)
  6. 6.What is the name for the moment of highest tension in a narrative, the point a struggle builds toward? (The climax.)
  7. 7.What word describes a book whose narrator is one of the characters speaking as 'I'? (First person narration.)
  8. 8.What is the general term for a novel centered on a character's growth and formation through hardship? (A bildungsroman, or coming-of-age novel.)

Bookmarks

Print, cut, and tuck one at every seat, a small keepsake from the night.

Contend

“Still here. That counts as winning tonight.”

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“Some fights are fought sitting very, very still.”

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“Hold the page. Hold the mug. Keep going.”

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Rate the book

Made me feel something☆☆☆☆☆
Comfort found in it☆☆☆☆☆
Characters I wanted to feed☆☆☆☆☆
Stayed with me after☆☆☆☆☆
Would hand to a friend☆☆☆☆☆
One word for this book: ______________________
The page I went back and reread: ______________________
Who I thought about while reading: ______________________
That's a wrap
Thank you for coming

We hope the company was good and the conversation even better. Until the next chapter.