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Book Club Night Kit
Courage Can Save Us

Courage Can Save Us

Rye Barcott
Cozy night

Rye Barcott, a Marine veteran, profiles Democrats and Republicans who served in uniform or the F.B.I. before running for office. It's a hopeful read about service and bravery that crosses party lines, and it makes for warm conversation by the fire.

Pull Up a Chair: Courage and Comfort Night

Join us for chili, cider, and a cozy conversation about Rye Barcott's Courage Can Save Us. Bring a blanket, an open heart, and a story about someone who showed up for you.

Reading level: Moderate

Best for: Clubs that want a sincere, heartening nonfiction read and a kind, respectful conversation among friends of all political stripes

Discussion

Warm-up

  1. 1.Settle in with your mug. Did anyone in your family or circle serve in the military or in public service, and did that person come to mind while you read?
  2. 2.Where were you, and what were you sipping, when you read the part of this book that stayed with you most? What made that moment feel right for it?

Digging in

  1. 1.The book gathers people from both parties under one roof. How did it feel to read stories where political labels mattered less than character? Was it a relief, a surprise, or something else?
  2. 2.Many of these people learned to rely on others while serving. Who has had your back in your own life, and what did it feel like to be trusted that way?
  3. 3.Courage here is often quiet, like showing up, keeping a promise, or reaching across a divide. What's a small, everyday act of courage you've seen or done that no one applauded?
  4. 4.Which profile left you feeling warmest or most hopeful, and what was it about that person's story that softened something in you?

Going deep

  1. 1.By the last page, did your feelings about public life and the people who choose it change at all? What would you want to say to someone who has given up hope in it?
  2. 2.The title makes a promise that courage can save us. After spending time with these stories, where do you feel that promise in your own community, your family, or yourself?

On the table & to sip

To eat

Potluck-Style Slow Cooker Chili with a Toppings Bar
A hearty, all-American pot everyone can add to, like the book's many voices at one table. Make it ahead and let guests top their own bowls.
Skillet Cornbread with Honey Butter
Humble, homey, and served in kitchens across the country. Warm and a little indulgent, and easy to bake in one pan.
Warm Apple Crisp with Vanilla Ice Cream
A classic hometown dessert that feels like coming home after a long time away. A nod to the service members in the book.

To sip

Mulled Apple Cider (no alcohol)
Spiced, steamy, and alcohol-free, so everyone can share the same cozy pot.
Bourbon Hot Toddy
An American whiskey classic with honey and lemon. Gentle and warming for a reflective evening.
Mess Hall Coffee with Whipped Cream and Cinnamon (no alcohol)
A nod to the strong coffee of military life, dressed up and softened for a slow night of conversation.

Run of show

7:00
Welcome In
Greet guests with mulled cider or coffee, blankets on the couch, and the playlist playing softly.
7:15
Bowls and Settling
Open the chili and toppings bar. Let people eat and catch up with no book talk yet.
7:40
Warm-Up Circle
Ask the two warm-up questions. Keep them light and let everyone share at their own pace.
8:00
Heart of the Book
Move through the theme questions. Invite stories and feelings rather than political opinions.
8:40
Dessert and Trivia
Serve the apple crisp warm, pour toddies, and play the trivia round in friendly teams.
9:05
Closing Reflections
Share the deep questions, fill out scorecards, and send everyone home with a bookmark.

Host tips

  • Set a gentle ground rule at the start: tonight is about people and courage, not party debates. This keeps things warm and welcoming for everyone.
  • Keep a small basket of blankets and extra mugs near the seating so guests can get comfortable without asking.
  • If a guest has a personal service connection, give them room to share, but never put anyone on the spot.

Playlist

Warm acoustic Americana and soulful classics about home, loyalty, and standing together, kept low like a fire in the next room

  1. 01 America - Simon & Garfunkel
  2. 02 Lean on Me - Bill Withers
  3. 03 The Weight - The Band
  4. 04 Stand By Me - Ben E. King
  5. 05 Coming Home - Leon Bridges
  6. 06 Bridge Over Troubled Water - Simon & Garfunkel
  7. 07 Wagon Wheel - Old Crow Medicine Show
  8. 08 The Times They Are a-Changin' - Bob Dylan

Trivia

  1. 1.In which branch of the U.S. military did author Rye Barcott serve? (The U.S. Marine Corps)
  2. 2.What nonprofit did Barcott co-found in one of Nairobi's largest informal settlements? (Carolina for Kibera)
  3. 3.In what country is Kibera located? (Kenya)
  4. 4.What is the title of Barcott's earlier memoir? (It Happened on the Way to War)
  5. 5.What nonpartisan organization did Barcott co-found to support veterans running for public office? (With Honor)
  6. 6.Carolina for Kibera is affiliated with which university? (The University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill)
  7. 7.The politicians profiled in this book previously served in which two areas? (The military or the F.B.I.)
  8. 8.Which two political parties are represented in the book's profiles? (Democratic and Republican)

Bookmarks

Print, cut, and tuck one at every seat, a small keepsake from the night.

Courage Can Save Us

“Brave hearts, warm hearth, one shared table.”

Courage Can Save Us
Rye Barcott
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Courage Can Save Us

“Some courage is quiet, like a porch light left on.”

Courage Can Save Us
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Courage Can Save Us

“Serve first, stay kind, keep showing up.”

Courage Can Save Us
Rye Barcott
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Rate the book

Heartwarming Moments☆☆☆☆☆
Hope It Gave Me☆☆☆☆☆
Stories That Stayed With Me☆☆☆☆☆
Cozy Readability☆☆☆☆☆
Would Share With a Friend☆☆☆☆☆
One word for how this book made me feel: ______________________
A person I thought of while reading: ______________________
A small brave thing I want to try: ______________________
That's a wrap
Thank you for coming

We hope the company was good and the conversation even better. Until the next chapter.