Courage Can Save Us
Rye Barcott, a Marine veteran, profiles Democrats and Republicans who served in uniform or the F.B.I. before running for office. It's a hopeful read about service and bravery that crosses party lines, and it makes for warm conversation by the fire.
Join us for chili, cider, and a cozy conversation about Rye Barcott's Courage Can Save Us. Bring a blanket, an open heart, and a story about someone who showed up for you.
Best for: Clubs that want a sincere, heartening nonfiction read and a kind, respectful conversation among friends of all political stripes
Discussion
Warm-up
- 1.Settle in with your mug. Did anyone in your family or circle serve in the military or in public service, and did that person come to mind while you read?
- 2.Where were you, and what were you sipping, when you read the part of this book that stayed with you most? What made that moment feel right for it?
Digging in
- 1.The book gathers people from both parties under one roof. How did it feel to read stories where political labels mattered less than character? Was it a relief, a surprise, or something else?
- 2.Many of these people learned to rely on others while serving. Who has had your back in your own life, and what did it feel like to be trusted that way?
- 3.Courage here is often quiet, like showing up, keeping a promise, or reaching across a divide. What's a small, everyday act of courage you've seen or done that no one applauded?
- 4.Which profile left you feeling warmest or most hopeful, and what was it about that person's story that softened something in you?
Going deep
- 1.By the last page, did your feelings about public life and the people who choose it change at all? What would you want to say to someone who has given up hope in it?
- 2.The title makes a promise that courage can save us. After spending time with these stories, where do you feel that promise in your own community, your family, or yourself?
On the table & to sip
To eat
To sip
Run of show
Host tips
- Set a gentle ground rule at the start: tonight is about people and courage, not party debates. This keeps things warm and welcoming for everyone.
- Keep a small basket of blankets and extra mugs near the seating so guests can get comfortable without asking.
- If a guest has a personal service connection, give them room to share, but never put anyone on the spot.
Playlist
Warm acoustic Americana and soulful classics about home, loyalty, and standing together, kept low like a fire in the next room
- 01 America - Simon & Garfunkel
- 02 Lean on Me - Bill Withers
- 03 The Weight - The Band
- 04 Stand By Me - Ben E. King
- 05 Coming Home - Leon Bridges
- 06 Bridge Over Troubled Water - Simon & Garfunkel
- 07 Wagon Wheel - Old Crow Medicine Show
- 08 The Times They Are a-Changin' - Bob Dylan
Trivia
- 1.In which branch of the U.S. military did author Rye Barcott serve? (The U.S. Marine Corps)
- 2.What nonprofit did Barcott co-found in one of Nairobi's largest informal settlements? (Carolina for Kibera)
- 3.In what country is Kibera located? (Kenya)
- 4.What is the title of Barcott's earlier memoir? (It Happened on the Way to War)
- 5.What nonpartisan organization did Barcott co-found to support veterans running for public office? (With Honor)
- 6.Carolina for Kibera is affiliated with which university? (The University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill)
- 7.The politicians profiled in this book previously served in which two areas? (The military or the F.B.I.)
- 8.Which two political parties are represented in the book's profiles? (Democratic and Republican)
Bookmarks
Print, cut, and tuck one at every seat, a small keepsake from the night.
“Brave hearts, warm hearth, one shared table.”
“Some courage is quiet, like a porch light left on.”
“Serve first, stay kind, keep showing up.”
Rate the book
We hope the company was good and the conversation even better. Until the next chapter.