Dogs, Boys, And Other Things I've Cried About
A tender, funny memoir about fostering dogs and finding your footing in life, perfect for a night of soft feelings and shared stories. It reads like a warm chat with a friend who loves animals as much as you do.
Come curl up for a cozy book club night with Isabel Klee's dog-filled memoir. Bring your softest sweater and your biggest heart (tissues provided).
Best for: A close-knit, animal-loving club that wants to laugh, tear up, and feel cozy together
Discussion
Warm-up
- 1.As you settled in with this book, which foster dog moment made you smile or reach for a tissue first? Tell us about it.
- 2.Is there a pet (yours, a neighbor's, or one you wish you had) that came to mind while reading? Introduce them to the group.
Digging in
- 1.Klee writes about loving something knowing you may have to let it go. When has caring for someone or something felt both tender and hard for you?
- 2.The book finds comfort in small daily routines with the dogs. What small, ordinary rituals bring you the most comfort in your own life?
- 3.So much of this story is about being patient with a scared or struggling creature. When has someone been that gentle and patient with you, and how did it feel?
- 4.The title suggests a lot of crying, happy and sad. Which passage moved you most, and what do you think it touched in you?
Going deep
- 1.Across the whole book, how did watching Klee help these dogs heal shift the way you think about your own messy, in-progress moments? Share as much or as little as feels right.
- 2.By the last pages, what did this book leave you feeling about starting over and giving yourself grace? What will you carry with you from it?
On the table & to sip
To eat
To sip
Run of show
Host tips
- Keep it low-pressure: remind guests they can pass on any question and just listen.
- Have tissues within reach, this one earns its title, and that is part of the fun.
- Invite anyone who wants to bring a photo of their own pet to pass around.
Playlist
Soft, warm acoustic songs about love, loyalty, and gentle comfort
- 01 The Luckiest - Ben Folds
- 02 Home - Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros
- 03 First Day of My Life - Bright Eyes
- 04 Such Great Heights - Iron and Wine
- 05 Landslide - Fleetwood Mac
- 06 I Will Follow You into the Dark - Death Cab for Cutie
- 07 Banana Pancakes - Jack Johnson
- 08 How Long Will I Love You - Ellie Goulding
Trivia
- 1.What kinds of animals are at the center of Klee's memoir? (Foster dogs.)
- 2.Is this book fiction or a memoir? (A memoir (nonfiction).)
- 3.Fostering a dog usually means what: keeping it forever, or caring for it temporarily until adoption? (Caring for it temporarily until it finds a permanent home.)
- 4.The book's title lists three things the author has cried about. Name two of them. (Dogs and boys (and other things).)
- 5.Before publishing, Klee built an audience largely through which platform known for photos and short videos? (Social media (Instagram).)
- 6.What tone does the title's mix of dogs, boys, and crying suggest the book will have? (Warm, funny, and emotional all at once.)
- 7.What broad genre does a personal, true-life story like this belong to? (Memoir / personal essay nonfiction.)
Bookmarks
Print, cut, and tuck one at every seat, a small keepsake from the night.
“Every scared little heart deserves a soft place to land.”
“Some love arrives on four muddy paws.”
“Cry a little, heal a lot, foster on.”
Rate the book
We hope the company was good and the conversation even better. Until the next chapter.