What are good book club discussion questions for Father Figure?

Spoiler-free questions to get the conversation going: Where did you do most of your reading of this one, and did you find yourself slowing down anywhere just to stay in it a little longer?; Before we talk about the book at all: what does the phrase 'father figure' call up for you? A person, a feeling, a smell, a song?; This is a book about wanting a parent to be a certain way. Was there a moment that made you feel unexpectedly protective of someone on the page?; Forrest writes with a lot of humor tucked inside sad things. Did a line make you laugh and then sit back a second? What was that like?; Families hand down stories about themselves. Which story does your own family tell over and over, and did reading this make you hear it differently?.

What food and drinks should I serve at a Father Figure book club?

Food: Sunday roast chicken sandwiches on soft rolls, Buttered crumpets with honey and jam, and Warm apple crumble with cream. Drinks: Milky tea in mismatched mugs, Hot spiced cider with an orange slice, and A simple red, poured generously.

How do I host a Father Figure book club night?

Emma Forrest's 2025 novel digs into the ache of fathers, daughters, and the stories families tell to stay close, written with a sharp, tender wit that goes down easy in a single weekend. It is short enough to finish in a cozy afternoon and emotionally generous enough to keep a room talking long past dessert.

Father Figure Book Club Questions, Food & Host Guide

Warm-up questions

1 Where did you do most of your reading of this one, and did you find yourself slowing down anywhere just to stay in it a little longer?
2 Before we talk about the book at all: what does the phrase 'father figure' call up for you? A person, a feeling, a smell, a song?

Digging in

1 This is a book about wanting a parent to be a certain way. Was there a moment that made you feel unexpectedly protective of someone on the page?
2 Forrest writes with a lot of humor tucked inside sad things. Did a line make you laugh and then sit back a second? What was that like?
3 Families hand down stories about themselves. Which story does your own family tell over and over, and did reading this make you hear it differently?
4 Was there a scene that felt like comfort to you, somewhere you would happily have stayed longer, even if nothing much was happening?

Going deep

1 By the time you closed the book, what did you find yourself hoping for, not predicting, just quietly hoping, for these people?
2 Reading this, did you feel more forgiving of someone in your own life, or less? Share only as much as feels comfortable.

On the table

Sunday roast chicken sandwiches on soft rolls

The food of a family meal everyone shows up for, served easy and in hand so nobody has to balance a plate.

Buttered crumpets with honey and jam

A nod to Forrest's British roots and to small comforts offered instead of apologies, plus it takes ten minutes.

Warm apple crumble with cream

The most forgiving dessert there is, scoopable from one dish, and the smell alone softens a room before the hard questions.

To sip

Milky tea in mismatched mugs No alcohol

Non-alcoholic and entirely the point: the drink you make for someone when you do not know what else to do for them.

Hot spiced cider with an orange slice No alcohol

Warm, a little indulgent, and good for a long sit on the floor cushions.

A simple red, poured generously

The unfussy bottle a parent opens at the kitchen table when the conversation turns honest.

Low lamplight, soft piano, aching voices kept at a volume you can talk over.

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