Homemaking With Babs
Barbara Costello, the grandmother millions know as Babs, shares warm, practical wisdom on keeping a home that feels loved. It reads like a visit to a favorite grandma's kitchen, which makes it an easy, heartwarming pick for a gentle night in.
Join us for a cozy evening of Homemaking With Babs, with warm drinks, comfort food, and stories from the kitchens that raised us. Bring slippers and a favorite family recipe if you have one.
Best for: Relaxed clubs, multigenerational groups, and friends who love a good kitchen-table story more than a debate
Discussion
Warm-up
- 1.When you opened this book, whose kitchen or home came to mind first, and what did it smell like?
- 2.Which tip or bit of advice from Babs made you smile, or had you saying 'my grandma did that too'?
Digging in
- 1.Babs treats everyday chores as small acts of love. Is there a household ritual in your life that feels more like caring for people than a chore?
- 2.Who taught you the first 'grown-up' home skill you ever learned, and how did they teach it to you?
- 3.Which part of the book felt most comforting to you, like a warm hand on your shoulder, and why do you think it landed that way?
- 4.Babs found a new community sharing her know-how later in life. Is there something you know how to do that you would love to pass on to someone younger?
Going deep
- 1.The book suggests a home is made more by attention and care than by perfection. Did reading it change how you feel about the 'messy' parts of your own home or routine?
- 2.If you could sit down for coffee with Babs after finishing the book, what would you want to thank her for, and what would you want to ask her?
On the table & to sip
To eat
To sip
Run of show
Host tips
- Leave a few throws and extra pillows out so guests can get comfortable right away and the night feels unhurried.
- Invite guests ahead of time to bring one family recipe card or household tip. It gives quieter members an easy way to share.
- Let the conversation wander. On a cozy night a long story about someone's grandmother is the point, not a detour.
Playlist
Soft, sentimental oldies and warm crooners, like a radio playing in grandma's kitchen on a Sunday morning
- 01 Our House - Crosby, Stills, Nash & Young
- 02 Moon River - Andy Williams
- 03 The Way You Look Tonight - Frank Sinatra
- 04 Dream a Little Dream of Me - Ella Fitzgerald & Louis Armstrong
- 05 Sunday Morning - Norah Jones
- 06 Home - Michael Bublé
- 07 What a Wonderful World - Louis Armstrong
- 08 Put Your Head on My Shoulder - Paul Anka
Trivia
- 1.What affectionate nickname has Barbara Costello earned from her online fans? (America's Grandma)
- 2.What was the title of Barbara Costello's first book? (Brunch with Babs)
- 3.On which short-video platform did Babs first build her huge following? (TikTok)
- 4.'Babs' is a classic nickname for which first name? (Barbara)
- 5.What genre does Homemaking With Babs belong to? (Nonfiction (home and lifestyle advice))
- 6.Which two humble pantry staples are famous old-fashioned household cleaners, often used together? (Baking soda and white vinegar)
Bookmarks
Print, cut, and tuck one at every seat, a small keepsake from the night.
“A clean kitchen, a warm pot, and someone to share it.”
“Every home is built one small kindness at a time.”
“Put the kettle on. Grandma's advice still holds.”
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We hope the company was good and the conversation even better. Until the next chapter.