Ordinary People, Extraordinary Times
A hopeful, human-centered look at how everyday people find the courage to stand up for their communities and their rights during uncertain times. It's an uplifting pick that leaves readers feeling less alone and more connected.
Bring your favorite sweater and a story about someone who inspires you. We'll have warm soup, hot cider, and a comfy seat waiting for you.
Best for: Warm, conversational clubs that like true stories with heart and prefer sharing over debating
Discussion
Warm-up
- 1.Settle in with your mug and tell us: who is an ordinary person in your life (a neighbor, teacher, grandparent) who quietly did something extraordinary?
- 2.Where were you, and how were you feeling, when you curled up with this book? Did it change your mood?
Digging in
- 1.This book is about everyday people showing up. When have you felt the comfort of a community showing up for you, even in a small way?
- 2.Which story or moment in the book left you feeling most hopeful, and why do you think it stayed with you?
- 3.Courage often looks quieter than we expect. What does gentle, everyday bravery look like in your own life or family?
- 4.Did anything in the book make you think of the place you grew up or the town you live in now? What memories came up?
Going deep
- 1.By the time you closed the book, did you feel differently about what one person's voice can do? What part of your heart shifted, if any?
- 2.When the world feels overwhelming, what keeps you going? After reading this, is there one small, doable thing you feel moved to try, just for yourself or with people you love?
On the table & to sip
To eat
To sip
Run of show
Host tips
- Invite guests to bring one small story about a local helper or everyday hero, which gives quieter members an easy way to join in
- Set a gentle ground rule of listening over debating so the evening stays warm and nobody feels pressured to argue politics
- Make the soup and crisp ahead of time so you can spend the evening on the couch with everyone else instead of in the kitchen
Playlist
Soft, soulful, and hopeful folk and soul, with songs about people, togetherness, and quiet strength played low
- 01 Everyday People - Sly and the Family Stone
- 02 Ordinary People - John Legend
- 03 This Land Is Your Land - Woody Guthrie
- 04 Lean on Me - Bill Withers
- 05 A Change Is Gonna Come - Sam Cooke
- 06 People Have the Power - Patti Smith
- 07 Put a Little Love in Your Heart - Jackie DeShannon
Trivia
- 1.What profession did Skye Perryman train for before becoming an author? (Law (she's an attorney))
- 2.Skye Perryman leads which national legal organization? (Democracy Forward)
- 3.What is Skye Perryman's title at that organization? (President and CEO)
- 4.Is this book fiction or nonfiction? (Nonfiction)
- 5.Which amendment to the U.S. Constitution protects freedom of speech and the right to peaceably assemble? (The First Amendment)
- 6.What three words open the Preamble to the U.S. Constitution? (We the People)
- 7.Which Sly and the Family Stone hit, on tonight's playlist, shares the book's spirit of everyday folks? (Everyday People)
Bookmarks
Print, cut, and tuck one at every seat, a small keepsake from the night.
“Small kindnesses, shared generously, change more than we know.”
“Pull up a chair. Ordinary people make the world warmer.”
“Courage can be as gentle as showing up.”
Rate the book
We hope the company was good and the conversation even better. Until the next chapter.