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Book Club Night Kit
Ordinary People, Extraordinary Times

Ordinary People, Extraordinary Times

Skye Perryman
Cozy night

A hopeful, human-centered look at how everyday people find the courage to stand up for their communities and their rights during uncertain times. It's an uplifting pick that leaves readers feeling less alone and more connected.

Come Cozy Up With Ordinary People, Extraordinary Times

Bring your favorite sweater and a story about someone who inspires you. We'll have warm soup, hot cider, and a comfy seat waiting for you.

Reading level: Moderate

Best for: Warm, conversational clubs that like true stories with heart and prefer sharing over debating

Discussion

Warm-up

  1. 1.Settle in with your mug and tell us: who is an ordinary person in your life (a neighbor, teacher, grandparent) who quietly did something extraordinary?
  2. 2.Where were you, and how were you feeling, when you curled up with this book? Did it change your mood?

Digging in

  1. 1.This book is about everyday people showing up. When have you felt the comfort of a community showing up for you, even in a small way?
  2. 2.Which story or moment in the book left you feeling most hopeful, and why do you think it stayed with you?
  3. 3.Courage often looks quieter than we expect. What does gentle, everyday bravery look like in your own life or family?
  4. 4.Did anything in the book make you think of the place you grew up or the town you live in now? What memories came up?

Going deep

  1. 1.By the time you closed the book, did you feel differently about what one person's voice can do? What part of your heart shifted, if any?
  2. 2.When the world feels overwhelming, what keeps you going? After reading this, is there one small, doable thing you feel moved to try, just for yourself or with people you love?

On the table & to sip

To eat

Potluck-Style Baked Mac and Cheese
The classic community-supper dish, bubbly and golden, a nod to the book's spirit of ordinary people coming together around a shared table
Slow-Cooker Chicken and Wild Rice Soup with Crusty Bread
Nourishing, low-effort comfort you can make ahead, like the warm soup neighbors bring each other in hard times
Skillet Apple Crisp with Vanilla Ice Cream
A homey, slightly indulgent all-American dessert that fills the room with a welcoming, hometown smell

To sip

Mulled Apple Cider (no alcohol)
Simmered with cinnamon sticks and orange slices, a warm, alcohol-free hug in a mug that works for everyone
Bourbon Hot Toddy
A gentle, honey-sweetened classic for sipping slowly while stories unfold
Salted Caramel Hot Cocoa Bar (no alcohol)
Set out whipped cream, marshmallows, and sprinkles so guests can make their own, a small shared ritual that sets a relaxed tone

Run of show

7:00
Warm Welcome
Greet guests at the door with mulled cider, point them to the blankets and the cocoa bar, and have the playlist playing softly
7:15
Supper Around the Table
Serve soup and mac and cheese buffet-style and let conversation wander naturally, no book talk required yet
7:45
Cozy Warm-Up
Move to the couches and open with the warm-up questions so everyone shares a personal story
8:05
Heart-to-Heart Discussion
Pass the question cards around the circle, letting guests pick the ones that speak to them
8:45
Dessert and Gentle Trivia
Bring out the warm apple crisp and play the trivia casually in teams, just for fun
9:10
Bookmarks and Goodnights
Hand out bookmarks, fill in scorecards over the last sips of cocoa, and choose the next pick together

Host tips

  • Invite guests to bring one small story about a local helper or everyday hero, which gives quieter members an easy way to join in
  • Set a gentle ground rule of listening over debating so the evening stays warm and nobody feels pressured to argue politics
  • Make the soup and crisp ahead of time so you can spend the evening on the couch with everyone else instead of in the kitchen

Playlist

Soft, soulful, and hopeful folk and soul, with songs about people, togetherness, and quiet strength played low

  1. 01 Everyday People - Sly and the Family Stone
  2. 02 Ordinary People - John Legend
  3. 03 This Land Is Your Land - Woody Guthrie
  4. 04 Lean on Me - Bill Withers
  5. 05 A Change Is Gonna Come - Sam Cooke
  6. 06 People Have the Power - Patti Smith
  7. 07 Put a Little Love in Your Heart - Jackie DeShannon

Trivia

  1. 1.What profession did Skye Perryman train for before becoming an author? (Law (she's an attorney))
  2. 2.Skye Perryman leads which national legal organization? (Democracy Forward)
  3. 3.What is Skye Perryman's title at that organization? (President and CEO)
  4. 4.Is this book fiction or nonfiction? (Nonfiction)
  5. 5.Which amendment to the U.S. Constitution protects freedom of speech and the right to peaceably assemble? (The First Amendment)
  6. 6.What three words open the Preamble to the U.S. Constitution? (We the People)
  7. 7.Which Sly and the Family Stone hit, on tonight's playlist, shares the book's spirit of everyday folks? (Everyday People)

Bookmarks

Print, cut, and tuck one at every seat, a small keepsake from the night.

Ordinary People, Extraordinary Times

“Small kindnesses, shared generously, change more than we know.”

Ordinary People, Extraordinary Times
Skye Perryman
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Ordinary People, Extraordinary Times

“Pull up a chair. Ordinary people make the world warmer.”

Ordinary People, Extraordinary Times
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Ordinary People, Extraordinary Times

“Courage can be as gentle as showing up.”

Ordinary People, Extraordinary Times
Skye Perryman
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Rate the book

Warmth Factor☆☆☆☆☆
Hope Meter☆☆☆☆☆
Heart-Tugging Moments☆☆☆☆☆
Stories That Stayed With Me☆☆☆☆☆
Cozy Reread Potential☆☆☆☆☆
This book made me feel: ______________________
An everyday hero it reminded me of: ______________________
One small thing I want to do after reading: ______________________
That's a wrap
Thank you for coming

We hope the company was good and the conversation even better. Until the next chapter.