Stripped Down
Bunnie Xo, host of the Dumb Blonde podcast, tells her own story of redemption with the same bold honesty her fans love. It's a warm, easy pick for a night about second chances, self-worth and becoming who you want to be.
Bring your comfiest sweater and an open heart for a night of Southern comfort food, warm drinks and honest talk about Bunnie Xo's story of redemption. No judgment, just good company.
Best for: A tight-knit group of friends who like heart-to-heart talks, a little laughter and a judgment-free couch
Discussion
Warm-up
- 1.Bunnie's voice is famously unfiltered. Did reading her felt like sitting across from a friend, and was there a moment early on when you felt pulled in?
- 2.Where did you curl up to read this, and was there a part that made you laugh out loud or put the book down just to breathe?
Digging in
- 1.The book is built around redemption. Which part of her journey made you feel most tender toward her, and why do you think it hit you that way?
- 2.She talks openly about parts of her life many people would keep hidden. How did it feel to read that kind of honesty, and is there something you wish you could be more open about?
- 3.Who are the 'safe people' in your own life, the ones who saw you clearly and loved you anyway? Did anyone in her story remind you of them?
- 4.The title suggests peeling back layers. What's one layer you've let go of over the years that made you feel more like yourself?
Going deep
- 1.Without giving away where she ends up, how did your feelings about forgiveness (forgiving others and forgiving yourself) shift as you read? Did any of it stay with you afterward?
- 2.Looking at the whole arc of her story, what does 'reaching your goals' mean to you now? Is there a gentle goal or fresh start you feel braver about after spending time with her?
On the table & to sip
To eat
To sip
Run of show
Host tips
- Say at the start that personal sharing is always optional. Some chapters touch on sensitive topics, so a pass-freely rule keeps the room safe.
- Make the food ahead: the mac and cheese and banana pudding both keep well, so you can relax with your guests.
- Keep a basket of throws and a few tissues nearby. Redemption stories can bring up feelings, and cozy means comfortable.
Playlist
Soft, soulful country and heartfelt Americana about scars, second chances and coming home to yourself
- 01 Save Me - Jelly Roll
- 02 Need a Favor - Jelly Roll
- 03 Coat of Many Colors - Dolly Parton
- 04 The House That Built Me - Miranda Lambert
- 05 Rainbow - Kacey Musgraves
- 06 The Joke - Brandi Carlile
- 07 Tennessee Whiskey - Chris Stapleton
- 08 I Am Not Okay - Jelly Roll
Trivia
- 1.What is the name of the podcast Bunnie Xo hosts? (Dumb Blonde)
- 2.What genre is Stripped Down? (Memoir)
- 3.Bunnie Xo is married to which musician? (Jelly Roll)
- 4.Jelly Roll's music mixes which two genres? (Country and hip-hop/rap)
- 5.According to the publisher, what theme was important in Bunnie's journey toward her goals? (Redemption)
- 6.Is 'Bunnie Xo' her legal birth name or a public persona name? (A public persona name)
Bookmarks
Print, cut, and tuck one at every seat, a small keepsake from the night.
“Every scar is proof you stayed for the sunrise.”
“Come as you are. The kettle's already warm.”
“Second chances taste better with something sweet.”
Rate the book
We hope the company was good and the conversation even better. Until the next chapter.