Tear the City Down
A fixer who wants to go straight and just be a good dad gets pulled back into San Diego's shadows for one last search. It's a gripping crime story with a tender father-daughter heart, and it gives a cozy club plenty to talk about.
Come in your coziest sweater for warm mugs, carne asada fries, and an easy evening talking about Tear the City Down. Bring your stories about home, family, and fresh starts.
Best for: Friends who love a page-turning mystery but really want to talk about family, home, and starting over
Discussion
Warm-up
- 1.Coltrane wants out so he can sit courtside for his daughter's tennis matches. Who showed up for you growing up, at a game, a recital, or a big moment, and how did that feel?
- 2.Before this book, what did San Diego mean to you? Beaches, sunshine, a trip you took? Did reading it change the picture in your head?
Digging in
- 1.Coltrane is both a knight and a hustler. When did you find yourself rooting for him, and when did you want to shake him? What made you keep caring about him?
- 2.Wanting to be 'the dad he always wanted to be' suggests Coltrane is trying to give his daughter something he may not have had. Have you ever tried to give someone the thing you once needed yourself?
- 3.Leaving a life you're good at, even one you've outgrown, is hard. Have you ever walked away from a job, a role, or a version of yourself? What helped you take the step?
- 4.This story looks at the side of a city that postcards leave out. Is there a part of your own hometown that outsiders never see but that you feel protective of?
Going deep
- 1.By the last page, how did you feel about Coltrane's chances at the peaceful life he wants? Did the book leave you hopeful, uneasy, or somewhere in between, and why?
- 2.Looking back over the whole story, which moment between Coltrane and the people he loves stayed with you most? What does it say about what 'getting out' really costs?
On the table & to sip
To eat
To sip
Run of show
Host tips
- Tell guests ahead of time that the deep questions come last, so anyone still reading can step out for a refill without spoilers
- Make the soup and cobbler earlier in the day so you can sit down with your guests instead of staying in the kitchen
- Keep blankets and extra pillows nearby and let people sit however they like. The comfier the room, the more openly people share
Playlist
Mellow jazz and warm classic soul, the sound of a city at night heard from a comfy couch
- 01 In a Sentimental Mood - Duke Ellington & John Coltrane
- 02 Naima - John Coltrane
- 03 Inner City Blues (Make Me Wanna Holler) - Marvin Gaye
- 04 Isn't She Lovely - Stevie Wonder
- 05 Grandma's Hands - Bill Withers
- 06 Let's Stay Together - Al Green
- 07 By Your Side - Sade
- 08 River - Leon Bridges
Trivia
- 1.The main character shares his name with which jazz saxophonist, famous for the album A Love Supreme? (John Coltrane)
- 2.What is San Diego's well-known official nickname? (America's Finest City)
- 3.The Chargers played their first season in 1960 in which city before moving to San Diego in 1961? (Los Angeles)
- 4.In what year did the Chargers leave San Diego to return to Los Angeles? (2017)
- 5.The Chargers played their San Diego home games at a stadium first called Jack Murphy Stadium. What was it renamed in 1997? (Qualcomm Stadium)
- 6.Which San Diego Super Bowl opponent beat the Chargers in the team's only Super Bowl appearance, Super Bowl XXIX? (The San Francisco 49ers)
- 7.Which large San Diego park is home to the famous San Diego Zoo? (Balboa Park)
- 8.What year was Tear the City Down published? (2026)
Bookmarks
Print, cut, and tuck one at every seat, a small keepsake from the night.
“Even fixers deserve a porch light left on.”
“Sunshine by day, secrets by night, cocoa by the fire.”
“The best comeback starts in the stands, cheering her on.”
Rate the book
We hope the company was good and the conversation even better. Until the next chapter.