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Book Club Night Kit
The Exquisite Torment Of Loving Your Enemy

The Exquisite Torment Of Loving Your Enemy

Brigitte Knightley
Cozy night

An assassin and a healer, one who ends lives and one who mends them, find their careful boundaries starting to crack in this second Dearly Beloathed romantasy. It's a swoony, witty pick that's perfect for curling up and swapping feelings about slow-burn longing.

Come Mend Your Heart: A Cozy Night with Your Favorite Enemies

Bring your coziest socks and your strongest feelings about slow-burn romance. We'll have pot pie, warm mugs, and plenty of swooning over The Exquisite Torment Of Loving Your Enemy.

Reading level: Easy

Best for: A friendly romance-loving club that wants blankets, snacks, and a happy sigh more than a debate.

Discussion

Warm-up

  1. 1.Where were you, and what were you wrapped up in (literally or emotionally), when you first felt yourself getting pulled into this book?
  2. 2.If a healer from this story came to look after you on a rough day, what would you want them to bring you: a remedy, a meal, or just their company?

Digging in

  1. 1.The story pairs someone trained to hurt with someone called to heal. Was there a moment when that contrast made you feel unexpectedly tender toward either of them?
  2. 2.Enemies-to-lovers is all about walls slowly coming down. What small gesture of trust between the two leads gave you butterflies or made you smile?
  3. 3.Have you ever warmed up to someone you first found impossible? What changed for you, and did this book bring that memory back?
  4. 4.Which scene made you feel the most comforted or cozy while reading, the kind you'd happily reread with a cup of tea?

Going deep

  1. 1.By the end, how did your feelings about letting someone see your guarded, sharp-edged side shift, and did the book make you feel braver about your own softness?
  2. 2.Healing in this story seems to go both ways. Without giving away how things turn out, what did the book leave you feeling about how people mend each other, and was there a moment that stayed with you after you closed it?

On the table & to sip

To eat

Healer's Herb and Chicken Pot Pie
A golden, flaky crust over a hearty filling with thyme and rosemary, the kind of nourishing dish a healer would press into a wounded assassin's hands. Bake one big pie or use store-bought puff pastry for mini ones.
Rosemary and Sea Salt Focaccia with Soft Butter
Rustic, fragrant, and made for tearing and sharing, like hearth-side bread in a fantasy tavern. Nice for grazing while you chat.
Dark Chocolate Dagger Brownies with Raspberry Swirl
A playful nod to the assassin: rich and a little dangerous, with a sweet red swirl for the romance. Cut them into long thin 'blade' slices.

To sip

Mending Tonic (Honey-Ginger Chamomile Tea) (no alcohol)
A warm, soothing brew that tastes like a healer's remedy. Serve it in mismatched mugs with honey sticks and lemon slices.
Spiced Mulled Wine
A slow-simmered pot of red wine with cinnamon, clove, and orange, warming and a bit intoxicating, much like falling for your enemy.
Poisoner's Blackberry Hot Toddy
Whiskey, blackberry jam, lemon, and hot water. It's dark and moody, a cheeky toast to the assassin's trade, but it goes down cozy.

Run of show

7:00
Arrivals and Warm Mugs
Greet everyone with a Mending Tonic or mulled wine, and point them to blankets and the comfiest seats.
7:15
Supper by Candlelight
Serve the pot pie and focaccia family-style. Keep the talk casual and catch up on life.
7:45
Warm-Up Chat
Start with the two warm-up questions over plates. No pressure to have finished the book.
8:05
Heart-to-Heart Discussion
Pass around the theme question cards and let people pick the ones that call to them. Save the deep questions for later.
8:45
Brownies and Trivia
Bring out the dagger brownies and play the trivia in pairs, just for fun and giggles.
9:10
Scorecards and Swoon Wrap-Up
Fill out scorecards, share your favorite answers, hand out bookmarks, and float ideas for the next pick.

Host tips

  • Put out a small spoiler basket where anyone who hasn't finished can drop a card, so the group knows to keep things gentle.
  • Make the mulled wine and tea ahead in slow cookers set to warm. That way you stay out of the kitchen and in the conversation.
  • Let quiet guests pass on any question, and invite everyone to read aloud a line they loved instead of analyzing it.

Playlist

Soft, candlelit folk and gentle ballads full of longing, like a quiet evening by the fire with someone you swore you'd never like.

  1. 01 Cardigan - Taylor Swift
  2. 02 Bloodstream - Stateless
  3. 03 Holocene - Bon Iver
  4. 04 To Build a Home - The Cinematic Orchestra
  5. 05 Arsonist's Lullabye - Hozier
  6. 06 Such Great Heights - Iron & Wine
  7. 07 The Night We Met - Lord Huron
  8. 08 Can't Help Falling in Love - Kina Grannis

Trivia

  1. 1.Who wrote The Exquisite Torment Of Loving Your Enemy? (Brigitte Knightley)
  2. 2.What is the name of the series this book belongs to? (Dearly Beloathed)
  3. 3.Where does this book fall in the series? (It's the second book)
  4. 4.What is the title of the first Dearly Beloathed book? (The Irresistible Urge to Fall for Your Enemy)
  5. 5.The series name 'Beloathed' blends which two words? (Beloved and loathed)
  6. 6.What are the professions of the two leads in this book? (An assassin and a healer)
  7. 7.What romance trope, named in the title, drives the story? (Enemies to lovers)
  8. 8.What is the term for the genre blend of romance and fantasy that this book belongs to? (Romantasy)

Bookmarks

Print, cut, and tuck one at every seat, a small keepsake from the night.

The Exquisite Torment Of Loving Your Enemy

“Some wounds only soften by candlelight.”

The Exquisite Torment Of Loving Your Enemy
Brigitte Knightley
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The Exquisite Torment Of Loving Your Enemy

“I swore I'd hate you. My heart disagreed.”

The Exquisite Torment Of Loving Your Enemy
Brigitte Knightley
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The Exquisite Torment Of Loving Your Enemy

“Put down the dagger. The tea is ready.”

The Exquisite Torment Of Loving Your Enemy
Brigitte Knightley
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Rate the book

Butterflies☆☆☆☆☆
Banter☆☆☆☆☆
Comfort Factor☆☆☆☆☆
Slow-Burn Ache☆☆☆☆☆
Reread Coziness☆☆☆☆☆
The moment I sighed out loud: ______________________
This book feels like a cup of: ______________________
One word for how it left my heart: ______________________
That's a wrap
Thank you for coming

We hope the company was good and the conversation even better. Until the next chapter.