The Perilous Fight
A Super Bowl quarterback turned civil rights activist walks through the moments that shaped who he became, told plainly and personally. It is short, sincere, and built for a room that wants to talk about their own turning points.
Come sit on the couch with us for a warm, easy night of chili, hot cocoa, and Colin Kaepernick's memoir of the moments that made him. Bring socks, bring your own turning point, finishing the book is optional.
Best for: A club that likes sharing their own stories as much as the book's, over second helpings and no rush
Discussion
Warm-up
- 1.Before you opened this, what picture of Colin Kaepernick did you carry around? Say it out loud, gently, no judgment in this room.
- 2.Where did you read most of this book, and did it end up being a couch book, a bus book, or a stay-up-late book for you?
Digging in
- 1.The book is built around defining moments. Which one made you put the book down for a second and just sit with it?
- 2.So much of this story is about a kid figuring out where he fits, in a family, a team, a town. When did you first feel like the odd one in a group you loved?
- 3.Who were the people who showed up for him along the way, sometimes in small ways? Who has quietly shown up for you like that?
- 4.Sports here is partly about belonging and being seen. What was your version of that: a team, a choir, a kitchen, a church, a group chat?
Going deep
- 1.There is a lot of tenderness in this book alongside the hard parts. What did the softness in it do to you, if you were expecting only toughness?
- 2.Looking back across the whole book, what does he seem to want a young reader to feel about themselves? Is there a young person in your life you would hand this to, and what would you say when you did?
On the table & to sip
To eat
To sip
Run of show
Host tips
- Say up front that reading the whole thing was optional. Somebody got to page 60 and will stay quiet all night otherwise.
- Because this is a real person's life, steer the room toward feelings and personal stories rather than politics. If it drifts, ask the next question instead of refereeing.
- Keep one lamp on instead of the overhead light, and have a stack of throw blankets by the couch. It does most of the hosting for you.
Playlist
Warm soul and gentle gospel-tinged R&B, played low, the kind of record that makes a living room feel like somebody's home.
- 01 A Change Is Gonna Come - Sam Cooke
- 02 Lean on Me - Bill Withers
- 03 Wonderful World - Sam Cooke
- 04 Home Again - Michael Kiwanuka
- 05 I Wish I Knew How It Would Feel to Be Free - Nina Simone
- 06 Ordinary People - John Legend
- 07 Keep Ya Head Up - 2Pac
- 08 Glory - Common and John Legend
Trivia
- 1.What is the name of the co-author who wrote this book with Colin Kaepernick? (Nick Chiles, a journalist and prolific co-author.)
- 2.What position did Kaepernick play in the NFL? (Quarterback.)
- 3.Which NFL team did he lead to a Super Bowl appearance? (The San Francisco 49ers.)
- 4.Kaepernick was adopted and raised in California. What sport besides football was he also a standout at in high school? (Baseball (he was also a strong basketball player).)
- 5.What college did he play football for? (The University of Nevada, Reno.)
- 6.Kaepernick became widely known for a form of silent protest during which pregame ritual? (The national anthem.)
- 7.What genre does this book belong to? (Memoir, written in an accessible style aimed partly at young readers.)
- 8.This is not Kaepernick's first book project about his own life. What earlier illustrated format did he tell his childhood story in? (A picture book for children, based on his early life.)
Bookmarks
Print, cut, and tuck one at every seat, a small keepsake from the night.
“Some moments do not shout. They just never let go.”
“Keep the porch light on for the kid you were.”
“Warm mug, worn page, one story at a time.”
Rate the book
We hope the company was good and the conversation even better. Until the next chapter.