The Psychology of Money
A warm, story-filled book about why we act the way we do with money. It gets people sharing memories about their families, their fears, and what feeling safe means to them.
Bring your slippers and your stories for a warm night of comfort food, hot cider, and gentle talk about The Psychology of Money. No finance degree needed, just an open heart.
Best for: Friends who like honest, low-key talk about life, family, and what really makes them feel secure
Discussion
Warm-up
- 1.What's one small, simple thing you spend money on that makes you happy every time?
- 2.When you were a kid, what did money feel like in your home? Was it calm, tense, a mystery, or something else?
Digging in
- 1.The book says we all come to money with our own life experiences. Which of your memories do you think shaped the way you save or spend?
- 2.Housel keeps coming back to the idea of 'enough.' Was there a moment in your life when you felt you truly had enough, and what made it feel that way?
- 3.The book treats being able to control your own time as one of the best things money can buy. When do you feel most in charge of your time, and how does that feel?
- 4.Did any story or idea in the book make you feel more at peace, or less alone, about your own money habits?
Going deep
- 1.The book talks about how much luck and risk shape people's lives. Has that changed how you think about your own path, or how gently you judge other people's?
- 2.Having read the whole book, is there one quiet habit or mindset you'd like to take into your own life, and who would you most like to share it with?
On the table & to sip
To eat
To sip
Run of show
Host tips
- Set a gentle ground rule at the start: share feelings and stories, never dollar amounts, so everyone feels comfortable
- Keep a jar of question cards on the table so quieter guests can pull one when they're ready
- Prep the lasagna and cinnamon rolls a day ahead so you can relax with your guests
Playlist
Soft acoustic and mellow folk for a candlelit living room and unhurried conversation
- 01 Simple Man - Lynyrd Skynyrd
- 02 The Best Things in Life Are Free - Ella Fitzgerald
- 03 Harvest Moon - Neil Young
- 04 Fast Car - Tracy Chapman
- 05 Slow Burn - Kacey Musgraves
- 06 Put Your Records On - Corinne Bailey Rae
- 07 Budapest - George Ezra
- 08 Here Comes the Sun - The Beatles
Trivia
- 1.At which venture capital firm is Morgan Housel a partner? (Collaborative Fund)
- 2.Name one of the two publications Housel wrote for before joining Collaborative Fund. (The Motley Fool or The Wall Street Journal)
- 3.What is the book's full subtitle? (Timeless Lessons on Wealth, Greed, and Happiness)
- 4.Which UK-based publisher first released the book in 2020? (Harriman House)
- 5.The book grew out of a popular piece Housel wrote. What form did it take? (A blog post on the Collaborative Fund site (2018))
- 6.What was the name of Housel's 2023 follow-up book? (Same as Ever)
- 7.The book opens with a janitor who quietly built a fortune worth about $8 million. What was his name? (Ronald Read)
- 8.Is the book organized as one long narrative or as short, standalone chapters? (Short, standalone chapters (about 20))
Bookmarks
Print, cut, and tuck one at every seat, a small keepsake from the night.
“The richest moments are often the quietest ones.”
“Enough is a warm mug and good company.”
“Patience grows slowly, like bread rising overnight.”
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We hope the company was good and the conversation even better. Until the next chapter.