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Book Club Night Kit
The Simp

The Simp

Roshan Sethi
Cozy night

A funny, tender satire about Raj Ladlani, a struggling actor who takes a job as personal assistant to an outrageous Hollywood family. It's easy to laugh along with and easy to talk about over a warm plate of food.

Chai, Comfort, and The Simp

Come in your coziest socks for dal, warm chai, and a gentle chat about Raj Ladlani's very strange Hollywood job. Finished or not, there's a mug and a blanket waiting for you.

Reading level: Moderate Pages: 304

Best for: Friends who like a good laugh, a soft spot for dreamers, and conversation that wanders into their own stories

Discussion

Warm-up

  1. 1.Raj's big moment came playing Shakespeare at school. What small early moment made you feel you might be meant for something, and do you still think about it?
  2. 2.Raj scoops frozen yogurt while he waits for his break. What's the most memorable in-between job you've had, and what did it quietly teach you?

Digging in

  1. 1.Raj moved from New Delhi to Los Angeles with a lot of hope. When were you far from home and trying to belong, and what (a food, a person, a ritual) made it feel less lonely?
  2. 2.The L family treats Raj with open condescension. When a scene made you wince on his behalf, what feeling came up first: anger, protectiveness, or recognition?
  3. 3.Being told your luck might depend on who you are is a heavy thing to carry. How did those moments sit with you, and did they bring up anything from your own life or the lives of people you love?
  4. 4.Raj is an actor who ends up performing a different role every day at work. Where in your life do you play a part to keep the peace, and where do you get to just be yourself?

Going deep

  1. 1.By the time you closed the book, how did you feel about the way Raj's dream and his sense of self-worth got tangled together? What would you gently tell him over a cup of tea?
  2. 2.Satire makes us laugh at things that also hurt. Did the book ever catch you laughing and aching in the same moment, and which feeling stayed with you longer?

On the table & to sip

To eat

Slow-Simmered Dal Makhani with Warm Garlic Naan
A creamy, homey North Indian dish that nods to Raj's New Delhi roots. Make it a day ahead and keep it warm in a slow cooker.
Midnight Aloo Parathas with Butter and Yogurt
Stuffed flatbreads, the kind of comfort that tastes like someone looking after you, which is exactly what Raj rarely gets from the Ls. Cut them into wedges for easy sharing.
Raj's Froyo Bar with Warm Toppings
A playful nod to his frozen yogurt job, made cozy with warm cardamom-honey drizzle, gulab jamun pieces, crushed pistachios, and warm salted caramel.

To sip

Stovetop Masala Chai (no alcohol)
Milky, spiced, and simmered slowly. Brew a big pot and let the smell welcome guests at the door.
Haldi Doodh (Golden Turmeric Milk) (no alcohol)
A soothing, honey-sweetened warm milk that many Indian households treat as a cure-all. Right for a book about needing a little more care.
Chai-Spiced Hot Toddy
Leftover masala chai with a splash of bourbon and a drop of honey. A little Hollywood indulgence in a mug.

Run of show

7:00
Arrivals and Chai
Greet everyone with a warm mug and let the chai pot and playlist set the mood. Blankets out, lights low.
7:20
Comfort Plates
Serve the dal and parathas buffet-style. Let people settle in and catch up before the book comes out.
7:45
Warm-Up Circle
Start with the two warm-up questions. Invite everyone to share, but passing is always fine.
8:05
Heart of the Book
Move through the theme questions slowly. Follow the stories people tell instead of racing through the list.
8:40
Froyo Bar and Trivia
Set out the warm toppings and read trivia aloud, casually. No teams, no pressure, just fun guesses.
9:00
Deep Questions and Goodbyes
Close with the two deep questions over a last round of toddies or golden milk, then hand out bookmarks as guests leave.

Host tips

  • Keep the dal and chai on low heat all night so late arrivals still get something warm.
  • Some questions touch on bias and belonging, so share a small story of your own first to make it feel safe to open up.
  • Tell guests who didn't finish that they're welcome. The warm-up and theme questions work without knowing how it ends.

Playlist

Soft, wistful, and warm: gentle Bollywood melodies mixed with mellow dreamer songs about Los Angeles

  1. 01 Kabhi Kabhi Aditi - Rashid Ali
  2. 02 Dreams - Fleetwood Mac
  3. 03 Tum Se Hi - Mohit Chauhan
  4. 04 Under the Bridge - Red Hot Chili Peppers
  5. 05 Kun Faya Kun - A.R. Rahman
  6. 06 Everybody Wants to Rule the World - Tears for Fears
  7. 07 Pink Moon - Nick Drake
  8. 08 Somewhere Over the Rainbow / What a Wonderful World - Israel Kamakawiwo'ole

Trivia

  1. 1.Which Shakespeare play first made Raj feel like an actor at his British high school? (A Midsummer Night's Dream)
  2. 2.In A Midsummer Night's Dream, which amateur actor ends up with a donkey's head? (Nick Bottom)
  3. 3.Which city did Raj leave to move to Los Angeles? (New Delhi)
  4. 4.What does Raj serve at his day job while he waits for his acting break? (Frozen yogurt)
  5. 5.How old is Raj when the story begins? (31)
  6. 6.What word does the L family patriarch use for Raj, giving the book its title? (Simp)
  7. 7.Roshan Sethi is also a filmmaker. Which 2024 romantic comedy did he direct, starring Karan Soni and Jonathan Groff? (A Nice Indian Boy)
  8. 8.In what year was The Simp published? (2026)

Bookmarks

Print, cut, and tuck one at every seat, a small keepsake from the night.

The Simp
The Simp
The Simp

Rate the book

Heart and Warmth☆☆☆☆☆
Laugh-Out-Loud Moments☆☆☆☆☆
Rooting for Raj☆☆☆☆☆
Comfort-Read Factor☆☆☆☆☆
Would Gift to a Friend☆☆☆☆☆
The moment I wanted to give Raj a hug: ______________________
One warm word for this book: ______________________
A dream of mine this book reminded me of: ______________________
That's a wrap
Thank you for coming

We hope the company was good and the conversation even better. Until the next chapter.