The Simp
A funny, tender satire about Raj Ladlani, a struggling actor who takes a job as personal assistant to an outrageous Hollywood family. It's easy to laugh along with and easy to talk about over a warm plate of food.
Come in your coziest socks for dal, warm chai, and a gentle chat about Raj Ladlani's very strange Hollywood job. Finished or not, there's a mug and a blanket waiting for you.
Best for: Friends who like a good laugh, a soft spot for dreamers, and conversation that wanders into their own stories
Discussion
Warm-up
- 1.Raj's big moment came playing Shakespeare at school. What small early moment made you feel you might be meant for something, and do you still think about it?
- 2.Raj scoops frozen yogurt while he waits for his break. What's the most memorable in-between job you've had, and what did it quietly teach you?
Digging in
- 1.Raj moved from New Delhi to Los Angeles with a lot of hope. When were you far from home and trying to belong, and what (a food, a person, a ritual) made it feel less lonely?
- 2.The L family treats Raj with open condescension. When a scene made you wince on his behalf, what feeling came up first: anger, protectiveness, or recognition?
- 3.Being told your luck might depend on who you are is a heavy thing to carry. How did those moments sit with you, and did they bring up anything from your own life or the lives of people you love?
- 4.Raj is an actor who ends up performing a different role every day at work. Where in your life do you play a part to keep the peace, and where do you get to just be yourself?
Going deep
- 1.By the time you closed the book, how did you feel about the way Raj's dream and his sense of self-worth got tangled together? What would you gently tell him over a cup of tea?
- 2.Satire makes us laugh at things that also hurt. Did the book ever catch you laughing and aching in the same moment, and which feeling stayed with you longer?
On the table & to sip
To eat
To sip
Run of show
Host tips
- Keep the dal and chai on low heat all night so late arrivals still get something warm.
- Some questions touch on bias and belonging, so share a small story of your own first to make it feel safe to open up.
- Tell guests who didn't finish that they're welcome. The warm-up and theme questions work without knowing how it ends.
Playlist
Soft, wistful, and warm: gentle Bollywood melodies mixed with mellow dreamer songs about Los Angeles
- 01 Kabhi Kabhi Aditi - Rashid Ali
- 02 Dreams - Fleetwood Mac
- 03 Tum Se Hi - Mohit Chauhan
- 04 Under the Bridge - Red Hot Chili Peppers
- 05 Kun Faya Kun - A.R. Rahman
- 06 Everybody Wants to Rule the World - Tears for Fears
- 07 Pink Moon - Nick Drake
- 08 Somewhere Over the Rainbow / What a Wonderful World - Israel Kamakawiwo'ole
Trivia
- 1.Which Shakespeare play first made Raj feel like an actor at his British high school? (A Midsummer Night's Dream)
- 2.In A Midsummer Night's Dream, which amateur actor ends up with a donkey's head? (Nick Bottom)
- 3.Which city did Raj leave to move to Los Angeles? (New Delhi)
- 4.What does Raj serve at his day job while he waits for his acting break? (Frozen yogurt)
- 5.How old is Raj when the story begins? (31)
- 6.What word does the L family patriarch use for Raj, giving the book its title? (Simp)
- 7.Roshan Sethi is also a filmmaker. Which 2024 romantic comedy did he direct, starring Karan Soni and Jonathan Groff? (A Nice Indian Boy)
- 8.In what year was The Simp published? (2026)
Bookmarks
Print, cut, and tuck one at every seat, a small keepsake from the night.
Rate the book
We hope the company was good and the conversation even better. Until the next chapter.