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Book Club Night Kit
The Son of Man

The Son of Man

Jean-Baptiste Del Amo
Cozy night

Jean-Baptiste Del Amo's taut novel follows a father who takes his son to a remote, abandoned homestead, and the quiet dread and tenderness that grow between them there. It is short, intensely atmospheric, and almost unbearably intimate, which makes it perfect for a small group willing to sit close and talk softly.

Soup, Blankets, and One Very Intense Little Book

Come read Jean-Baptiste Del Amo's The Son of Man with us: a short, beautiful, slightly terrifying story about a father, a son, and a house in the mountains. There will be garbure, warm apple tart, and absolutely no pressure to say anything clever.

Reading level: Moderate

Best for: A small, close club that likes beautiful sentences, isn't afraid of darkness, and wants to end the night talking about their own families

Discussion

Warm-up

  1. 1.Before we get into it: where did you read this one, and did you need a blanket, a cup of something, or a dog nearby to get through it?
  2. 2.Del Amo writes weather and mountains like they are alive. Which bit of the landscape did you feel most in your body: cold, rain, altitude, dark, or that particular silence?

Digging in

  1. 1.This is a book about a father trying to make a home in a place that has mostly given up on being one. What made a place feel like home to you as a child, and was it the building or the people?
  2. 2.There are moments of real gentleness between the father and the boy. Which small kindness stayed with you, and did it comfort you or make you more uneasy?
  3. 3.The boy spends a lot of the book watching an adult and trying to read him. When did you first start studying a grown-up that closely, and what were you trying to figure out?
  4. 4.Animals and the natural world are everywhere here, sometimes tender, sometimes brutal. Did the nature writing soothe you or set you on edge, and were you surprised by which?

Going deep

  1. 1.The novel keeps circling the idea that something gets handed down from father to son whether anyone wants it or not. Reading it, did you feel hopeful about the chance of breaking that chain, or sad about it? Be as honest as you want, we're all comfortable here.
  2. 2.Without saying how things land, what feeling were you left holding when you closed the book, and was there anything in it that you found genuinely comforting to carry away?

On the table & to sip

To eat

Big pot of garbure (French mountain cabbage, bean and ham soup)
A rustic soup from the French southwest, exactly the kind of thing you'd simmer all day in a cold stone house. Make it the day before, serve in mugs, and let people hold the warmth while they talk.
Pain de campagne with salted butter and a wedge of Pyrenean sheep cheese
Country bread and mountain cheese, the plain food of the book's world. Zero cooking required, and tearing bread together is a very good way to start a tender conversation.
Warm apple and walnut tart with crème fraîche
Nurturing and a little indulgent after a bleak read. Use store-bought pastry, pile on sliced apples and walnuts, and serve it warm so the kitchen smells like comfort.

To sip

Mulled apple cider with cinnamon, star anise and orange peel (no alcohol)
The non-alcoholic anchor of the night. Keep it in a pot on low heat so people can top up whenever the conversation gets heavy.
Hot chocolate with a splash of Armagnac (and a bowl of plain for anyone who'd rather skip it)
Armagnac is Gascon, from Del Amo's southwest France, and a spiked hot chocolate is the most forgiving thing you can hand someone after a tense book.
Simple glass of red Madiran or Cahors
Dark, earthy southwest French reds that suit the stone-and-rain mood. One bottle, no ceremony, poured into whatever glasses you own.

Run of show

7:00
Soup on, door open
Garbure already warm, cider on the stove, playlist low. No agenda for twenty minutes. Let people arrive in their socks.
7:20
Bread, butter, warm-ups
Pass the bread board and run the two warm-up questions around the room. Keep it to where-did-you-read-it chat so latecomers lose nothing.
7:40
Bowls and the theme questions
Serve soup in mugs, then work through the theme questions. Mugs keep hands busy, which makes the family talk easier.
8:15
Read-aloud pause
Everyone shares one sentence of Del Amo's they dog-eared. No analysis, just read it and let it sit.
8:30
Tart, hot chocolate, deep questions
Bring out the warm tart before the two deep questions. Sweetness first, then the hard feelings.
9:05
Scorecards and soft landing
Fill in scorecards, hand out bookmarks, pick the next book. End on something light so nobody drives home inside the book.

Host tips

  • This is a dark, tense book, so be explicit at the start that anyone can pass on a question, especially the father-son ones. Say it out loud once and people relax.
  • Keep the food in mugs and on boards rather than at a set table. Hands holding warm things, nobody at the head of the table, and the conversation stays gentle.
  • Plan a deliberate decompression at the end: the next pick, a silly recommendation round, anything. Groups that just stop talking about this one tend to leave a little rattled.

Playlist

Hushed and woodsy: fingerpicked guitar, distant piano, held strings, the sound of rain on a roof you are grateful to be under

  1. 01 Re: Stacks - Bon Iver
  2. 02 Avril 14th - Aphex Twin
  3. 03 The Mountain - Heartless Bastards
  4. 04 Nuvole Bianche - Ludovico Einaudi
  5. 05 Hoppipolla - Sigur Ros
  6. 06 Fil de l'eau - Camille
  7. 07 Holocene - Bon Iver
  8. 08 On the Nature of Daylight - Max Richter

Trivia

  1. 1.In what language was The Son of Man originally written? (French (Le Fils de l'homme).)
  2. 2.Jean-Baptiste Del Amo is strongly associated with which region of France? (The southwest, where he was born in Toulouse.)
  3. 3.Del Amo won the Prix Goncourt du Premier Roman for which debut novel? (Une education libertine (published in English as The Salt of the Earth's sibling work, titled A Libertine Education).)
  4. 4.Which earlier Del Amo novel about generations on a French farm is his best known in English? (Animalia.)
  5. 5.Beyond fiction, what cause is Del Amo publicly committed to? (Animal rights and animal welfare activism.)
  6. 6.The title The Son of Man borrows a phrase with roots in which tradition? (Biblical and religious tradition, where the phrase appears as a title for Christ.)
  7. 7.What kind of setting dominates the novel's atmosphere? (A remote, run-down mountain homestead in the wild countryside.)
  8. 8.Which Belgian surrealist painter made a famous work also called The Son of Man? (Rene Magritte (the man with the apple over his face).)

Bookmarks

Print, cut, and tuck one at every seat, a small keepsake from the night.

The Son of Man

“Rain on the roof, and the kettle going, and no hurry.”

The Son of Man
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The Son of Man

“Some houses remember more than the people in them.”

The Son of Man
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The Son of Man

“Hold the mug. Tell me about your father later.”

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Rate the book

Atmosphere (did it put you somewhere?)☆☆☆☆☆
Tenderness☆☆☆☆☆
How hard it gripped you☆☆☆☆☆
Beauty of the sentences☆☆☆☆☆
Would you press it into a friend's hands?☆☆☆☆☆
One word for how this book left you: ______________________
The line I read twice: ______________________
What I needed right after finishing it: ______________________
That's a wrap
Thank you for coming

We hope the company was good and the conversation even better. Until the next chapter.