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Book Club Night - Cozy night

This Oak House

Cut along the dashed lines and pass the cards around the table.

Warm-up 1

Before we talk about the book at all: what is one room from your own past you can still walk through in your mind, and what does it smell like?

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Warm-up 2

Where did you do most of your reading of this one, and did the setting of your reading spot start to blur into the setting of the book?

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Discussion 3

The house sits at the center of this story. When did it start to feel less like a setting and more like a family member to you?

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Discussion 4

Which small domestic moment (a meal, a doorway, a bit of ordinary fuss) gave you that unexpected lump in the throat, and why do you think that one landed?

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Discussion 5

Meyers-Shyer writes families that circle each other with a lot of love and a little friction. Which family rhythm in this book felt most like your own household growing up?

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Discussion 6

Reading this, did you find yourself missing a person or a place you had not thought about in years? Tell us about them.

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Deep 7

By the end you have watched people decide what to hold onto and what to let go of. Without spoiling where it lands, what did the book leave you wanting to hold onto in your own life?

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Deep 8

Homes outlast the people in them. Did this book comfort you about that, or unsettle you, and did that feeling change as you got deeper in?

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