You'll Be Sorry
A grieving couple takes refuge in a New Hampshire lodge that holds its own secrets, which makes this a great pick for a blanket-and-cider evening. It's suspenseful enough to keep everyone turning pages and emotional enough to open up real, heartfelt conversation.
Bring your coziest socks and your thoughts on Lisa Gardner's New Hampshire lodge story. There will be pot pie, warm cider, and good company by the fire.
Best for: Friends who like a gripping story but would rather curl up and talk about feelings than dissect clues
Discussion
Warm-up
- 1.Picture yourself arriving at a snowy New Hampshire lodge. What would you need (a certain blanket, drink, or book) to feel at home there on your first night?
- 2.Where did you do most of your reading for this book, and did the story ever make you pull the covers up a little tighter or double-check the locks?
Digging in
- 1.This couple goes somewhere new to recover from a tragedy. Have you ever moved or run off somewhere to heal, and did it feel like the place helped or just followed you there?
- 2.The lodge seems to hold on to memories of what happened there. Is there a place in your life, like a childhood home, a cabin, or a relative's kitchen, that still feels full of the people and moments that passed through it?
- 3.Grief can pull two people together or quietly push them apart. Which moments between the couple felt tender or familiar to you, and did any of them remind you of how you or someone you love handles loss?
- 4.When the tension rose, what small comforts in the story (a fire, a meal, a kind word, the landscape) did you find yourself holding on to as a reader?
Going deep
- 1.By the end, how did your feelings about the lodge itself change? Did it end up feeling more like a refuge or a wound, and what did that stir up in you about the places we choose to heal?
- 2.Without giving anything away for anyone still reading, which moment in the book stayed with you emotionally after you closed it, and why do you think it hit so close to home?
On the table & to sip
To eat
To sip
Run of show
Host tips
- Put the cider on the stove about an hour before guests arrive so the house smells warm and inviting as they walk in.
- Tell everyone up front that passing on a question is fine. It keeps the grief-related conversations gentle and pressure-free.
- Before the deep questions, check whether anyone hasn't finished the book, and keep the spoiler-heavy talk to the end of the night.
Playlist
Soft acoustic folk with a hint of winter-woods melancholy, like a crackling fire with snow falling outside
- 01 Holocene - Bon Iver
- 02 Northern Sky - Nick Drake
- 03 Harvest Moon - Neil Young
- 04 Fire and Rain - James Taylor
- 05 Rivers and Roads - The Head and the Heart
- 06 The Night We Met - Lord Huron
- 07 Cherry Wine - Hozier
- 08 Pink Moon - Nick Drake
Trivia
- 1.In what U.S. state does Lisa Gardner live, the same state where this book's lodge is set? (New Hampshire)
- 2.What is New Hampshire's well-known state nickname? (The Granite State)
- 3.What is New Hampshire's famous state motto? (Live Free or Die)
- 4.What is the name of the Boston detective who stars in one of Lisa Gardner's best-known series? (D.D. Warren)
- 5.Lisa Gardner also writes a series about a woman who searches for missing people no one else is looking for. What is the heroine's name? (Frankie Elkin)
- 6.Under what pen name did Lisa Gardner write romance novels early in her career? (Alicia Scott)
- 7.What is the name of the tallest peak in the northeastern United States, located in New Hampshire's White Mountains? (Mount Washington)
- 8.Which Lisa Gardner novel, published in 1997, was her first thriller under her own name? (The Perfect Husband)
Bookmarks
Print, cut, and tuck one at every seat, a small keepsake from the night.
“Keep the fire lit. Some houses remember everything.”
“Snow outside, cider in hand, one more chapter.”
“We came here to heal. The mountains were listening.”
Rate the book
We hope the company was good and the conversation even better. Until the next chapter.