Beginning Middle End
A mother and her almost-teen daughter spend a stormy Sicilian summer cooking, reading aloud, playing chess and working out how to begin again. It's a tender, talk-sparking pick for an evening with a warm drink in hand.
Come in cozy clothes for warm pasta, rich hot chocolate and gentle conversation about Valeria Luiselli's tender mother-daughter summer. No pressure, just good company and starting again.
Best for: Clubs that like heartfelt literary fiction, sharing personal stories, and a second helping of dessert
Discussion
Warm-up
- 1.The mother and daughter fill their days cooking side by side, reading aloud and playing chess. Which of these small rituals would you most like to share with someone, and who would you pick?
- 2.If you could run away for one reset summer like these two, where would you go, who would come with you, and what would you cook the first night?
Digging in
- 1.The book asks, 'How do you begin again if you got the beginning wrong?' Did that question stir up anything for you, and did the story leave you feeling hopeful about fresh starts?
- 2.The narrator is caught between a mother who is losing her memory and a daughter who is starting to ask hard questions. Which moments of that in-between feeling touched you most, or felt closest to your own life?
- 3.The two of them bicker and make up again and again. Did those small fights and repairs feel familiar or comforting to you? What does 'making up' look like in your own family?
- 4.The trip brings them near ruins where the narrator's grandmother once worked on a dig. What family story or keepsake from an older generation do you hold onto, and why does it matter to you?
Going deep
- 1.Over the summer the daughter starts to take the reins, and the balance between the two shifts. How did it feel to watch that happen? Did it bring back a time when you became the one leading, or the one letting go?
- 2.With the whole book in mind, how did the title 'Beginning Middle End' sit with you? Do you think of your own life as having beginnings, middles and ends, and did the book change how you feel about getting some of them 'wrong'?
On the table & to sip
To eat
To sip
Run of show
Host tips
- Make the pasta and caponata earlier in the day so you can relax and be with your guests instead of the stove.
- Mention at the start that sharing personal stories is always optional. Some guests may be carrying their own mother or memory-loss experiences.
- Keep a chessboard or a deck of cards on a side table. It echoes the book and gives quieter guests something easy to do with their hands.
Playlist
Soft Italian summer evenings, low and warm, with gentle songs about mothers and daughters to fill the pauses
- 01 Estate - João Gilberto
- 02 Il cielo in una stanza - Mina
- 03 Via con me - Paolo Conte
- 04 L'ultimo bacio - Carmen Consoli
- 05 Amara terra mia - Domenico Modugno
- 06 Mother and Child Reunion - Paul Simon
- 07 Landslide - Fleetwood Mac
- 08 Both Sides, Now - Joni Mitchell
Trivia
- 1.In what city was Valeria Luiselli born? (Mexico City)
- 2.Which Luiselli novel, her first written in English, follows a family on a road trip across the United States? (Lost Children Archive)
- 3.Which major fellowship, often called a 'genius grant,' did Luiselli receive in 2019? (The MacArthur Fellowship)
- 4.Sicily is the largest island in which sea? (The Mediterranean Sea)
- 5.Which Sicilian volcano is the tallest active volcano in Europe? (Mount Etna)
- 6.What is the name of the hot, dusty wind that blows north from the Sahara into Sicily? (The sirocco)
- 7.Which Sicilian town is famous for its gritty, cold-worked chocolate? (Modica)
- 8.Pasta alla Norma, a Sicilian classic, is traditionally built around which vegetable? (Eggplant)
Bookmarks
Print, cut, and tuck one at every seat, a small keepsake from the night.
Rate the book
We hope the company was good and the conversation even better. Until the next chapter.