Brain Damage
A dermatologist wakes up with a bullet wound, holes in her memory, and a creeping doubt about the people closest to her. It's a fast, twisty read that sparks warm talk about memory, trust, and what makes us feel safe.
Come curl up with us to talk about Freida McFadden's Brain Damage over soup, mac and cheese, and warm drinks. Bring your coziest socks and your theories.
Best for: A relaxed club that loves a quick, twisty read and a long chat under a blanket
Discussion
Warm-up
- 1.Where were you (couch, bed, bath, a waiting room) when you couldn't put this book down, and what snack or drink kept you company?
- 2.If a bump on the head wiped out a stretch of your memory, which small, ordinary moment from your life would you be saddest to lose?
Digging in
- 1.The heroine has to rebuild her sense of self from pieces. What little rituals, smells, or objects help you feel like yourself again after a hard stretch?
- 2.When she isn't sure who she can trust, what did you find yourself wishing she had: a friend, a place, a routine? What is that anchor in your own life?
- 3.Recovering from an injury is slow and humbling. Has there been a time when you had to lean on others more than felt comfortable, and what did that teach you?
- 4.The author is a real doctor who works with brain injury. Did any medical moments make you feel more tender toward patients, caregivers, or the healthcare workers in your life?
Going deep
- 1.By the final pages, how did your feelings about the people around the heroine shift, and did that change make you look at trust in your own close relationships any differently?
- 2.After everything she goes through, what do you hope she carries forward emotionally, and what do you think she most needs in order to feel safe again?
On the table & to sip
To eat
To sip
Run of show
Host tips
- Keep a spoiler-free zone until the deep questions, and give late finishers a gentle heads-up before you get there.
- Brain injury and trauma can hit close to home for some people, so let guests pass on any question without explanation.
- Keep the cocoa warm in a slow cooker so refills are easy and you can stay on the couch.
Playlist
Soft, wistful acoustic and mellow classics about memory and home, with a hint of mystery
- 01 Brain Damage - Pink Floyd
- 02 Somewhere Only We Know - Keane
- 03 The Night We Met - Lord Huron
- 04 Holocene - Bon Iver
- 05 Fix You - Coldplay
- 06 I Will Remember You - Sarah McLachlan
- 07 Unforgettable - Nat King Cole
- 08 Memories - Maroon 5
Trivia
- 1.Freida McFadden is a pen name. What is the author's day job? (She is a practicing physician who specializes in brain injury.)
- 2.Which Freida McFadden novel, about a live-in domestic worker, became a massive bestseller and then a film? (The Housemaid)
- 3.What medical specialty does this book's heroine practice? (Dermatology)
- 4.Dermatology is the branch of medicine that focuses on which organ? (The skin, the body's largest organ)
- 5.What is the term for losing memories of events that happened before an injury? (Retrograde amnesia)
- 6.What genre is Freida McFadden best known for? (Psychological thrillers with twisty endings)
- 7.Which Pink Floyd album includes a song that shares this book's title? (The Dark Side of the Moon)
Bookmarks
Print, cut, and tuck one at every seat, a small keepsake from the night.
“Some memories fade. The warm ones find their way home.”
“Tuck in, sip slowly, and trust your gut.”
“Every piece you remember brings you closer to yourself.”
Rate the book
We hope the company was good and the conversation even better. Until the next chapter.