Dream State
A sweeping, tender novel about a wedding at a Montana lake house and the decades of love, friendship, and quiet betrayal that ripple out from it. It is the kind of big, warm, generous book that makes people want to talk about their own families.
Chili on the stove, huckleberry crumble in the oven, and Eric Puchner's Dream State to talk about. Bring slippers, bring your copy, bring nothing at all.
Best for: A club that loves big-hearted family sagas and does not mind a long book if the pages turn easily
Discussion
Warm-up
- 1.Before we talk about anybody in the book, tell us about a house or cabin you have loved. What did it smell like when you walked in?
- 2.What was the moment you realized you were settled in and not going to put this one down? Grab the page if you still have it tabbed.
Digging in
- 1.This is a book about a place people return to year after year. Where is your lake house, the spot you go back to even when it has changed? How does it feel when you get there now?
- 2.The long friendships here are as tender as the romances. Which friendship in the book made you want to call somebody, and did you actually call them?
- 3.There is so much quiet love in the small domestic stuff, meals made, rooms shared, people waiting up. Which of those ordinary moments comforted you most while you were reading?
- 4.Puchner lets us watch Montana itself warm and shift over decades. Did that make you feel grief, tenderness, or something gentler? How does it compare to a landscape you have watched change?
Going deep
- 1.Living with these people across so many years feels like aging alongside them. By the last stretch, did you find yourself forgiving choices that upset you early on? What softened in you?
- 2.The book is generous toward people who hurt each other without meaning to. Did that generosity feel like a comfort or a challenge to you, and did you want to extend it to anyone in your own life?
On the table & to sip
To eat
To sip
Run of show
Host tips
- Say out loud at the start that half-finished is welcome. It is 528 pages and the shame of not finishing keeps people home.
- Make the chili and crumble filling the day before. You want to be on the couch, not at the stove.
- Keep a stack of sticky notes by the door so people can flag a passage they loved. Reading favorite lines out loud is the warmest part of the night.
Playlist
Soft, wide-open Americana and gentle folk, the sound of a porch at dusk with the lake going quiet
- 01 Harvest Moon - Neil Young
- 02 Michigan - The Milk Carton Kids
- 03 Casimir Pulaski Day - Sufjan Stevens
- 04 Lay Low - Josh Ritter
- 05 The Wolves (Act I and II) - Bon Iver
- 06 Pink Rabbits - The National
- 07 Summertime - My Morning Jacket
- 08 Dreams - Fleetwood Mac
Trivia
- 1.In what year was Dream State published? (2025.)
- 2.Which U.S. state provides the novel's central lake house setting? (Montana.)
- 3.Dream State opens around which kind of family event? (A wedding.)
- 4.Eric Puchner is best known for an earlier novel about a family's unraveling in Southern California. What is its title? (Model Home, published in 2010.)
- 5.What is the title of Eric Puchner's debut short story collection? (Music Through the Floor, published in 2005.)
- 6.At which university does Eric Puchner teach writing? (Johns Hopkins University.)
- 7.Model Home was a finalist for which major American book prize? (The PEN/Faulkner Award for Fiction.)
- 8.Roughly how long is Dream State, and over how much time does its story range? (About 528 pages, spanning decades across multiple generations.)
Bookmarks
Print, cut, and tuck one at every seat, a small keepsake from the night.
“The lake remembers everyone who ever swam here.”
“Keep the porch light on. Someone is still coming.”
“Summers end. The people stay in the house.”
Rate the book
We hope the company was good and the conversation even better. Until the next chapter.