Father Figure
Emma Forrest's 2025 novel digs into the ache of fathers, daughters, and the stories families tell to stay close, written with a sharp, tender wit that goes down easy in a single weekend. It is short enough to finish in a cozy afternoon and emotionally generous enough to keep a room talking long past dessert.
Come over for roast chicken sandwiches, endless tea, and a gentle talk about Emma Forrest's Father Figure. It is 288 pages, so no excuses, and no shame if you only got halfway.
Best for: A close-knit club that likes books about family feeling and does not mind getting a little misty on the couch
Discussion
Warm-up
- 1.Where did you do most of your reading of this one, and did you find yourself slowing down anywhere just to stay in it a little longer?
- 2.Before we talk about the book at all: what does the phrase 'father figure' call up for you? A person, a feeling, a smell, a song?
Digging in
- 1.This is a book about wanting a parent to be a certain way. Was there a moment that made you feel unexpectedly protective of someone on the page?
- 2.Forrest writes with a lot of humor tucked inside sad things. Did a line make you laugh and then sit back a second? What was that like?
- 3.Families hand down stories about themselves. Which story does your own family tell over and over, and did reading this make you hear it differently?
- 4.Was there a scene that felt like comfort to you, somewhere you would happily have stayed longer, even if nothing much was happening?
Going deep
- 1.By the time you closed the book, what did you find yourself hoping for, not predicting, just quietly hoping, for these people?
- 2.Reading this, did you feel more forgiving of someone in your own life, or less? Share only as much as feels comfortable.
On the table & to sip
To eat
To sip
Run of show
Host tips
- Say up front that nobody has to finish or perform. One person admitting they stalled at page 60 relaxes the whole room.
- Because the family questions can get personal, give explicit permission to pass. A simple 'pass' with no explanation keeps it safe and keeps it moving.
- Keep one dish warm in the oven for the back half of the night. Reheated crumble buys you another thirty minutes of good conversation.
Playlist
Low lamplight, soft piano, aching voices kept at a volume you can talk over.
- 01 Father and Daughter - Paul Simon
- 02 Harvest Moon - Neil Young
- 03 The Book of Love - The Magnetic Fields
- 04 My Father's House - Bruce Springsteen
- 05 First Day of My Life - Bright Eyes
- 06 Song for Zula - Phosphorescent
- 07 Holocene - Bon Iver
- 08 Northern Sky - Nick Drake
Trivia
- 1.In what year was Father Figure published? (2025.)
- 2.Who wrote it? (Emma Forrest.)
- 3.Roughly how long is the novel? (About 288 pages.)
- 4.Forrest is known for a candid memoir about love and mental health. What is it called? (Your Voice in My Head.)
- 5.Before publishing books, Forrest built a career in what field, starting as a teenager? (Journalism, writing for British newspapers and music press while still in her teens.)
- 6.Which country was Emma Forrest born in? (England (she grew up in London).)
- 7.Besides novels and memoir, what other kind of writing has Forrest worked in? (Screenwriting and film directing.)
- 8.What broad genre does Father Figure sit in? (Contemporary literary fiction, centered on family.)
Bookmarks
Print, cut, and tuck one at every seat, a small keepsake from the night.
“Some love arrives late, in a mug, saying nothing.”
“Every family keeps one story warm on the stove.”
“Stay for the crumble. Stay for the hard part.”
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We hope the company was good and the conversation even better. Until the next chapter.