Oversharing
A warm, chatty, very online novel about a woman whose habit of telling everyone everything finally catches up with her. It reads like a long voice memo from your funniest friend, which makes it perfect for a group that likes to talk.
We are reading Oversharing by Cortney LaCorte, so bring your softest sweatpants and your least guarded self. There will be hot chocolate, a potato bar, and absolutely no judgment.
Best for: A club that treats book night as a soft place to land and tends to wander into personal stories anyway
Discussion
Warm-up
- 1.Before we talk about the book at all: what is the most harmless thing you have overshared with a stranger lately (cashier, dental hygienist, group chat)?
- 2.Where did you do most of your reading of this one, and did the voice feel like company while you read it?
Digging in
- 1.The book lives in that itchy space between being known and being exposed. Which one did you feel more of while reading, and did it make you want to curl up or hide your phone?
- 2.Was there a moment where the narrator said something you have thought but never admitted out loud? How did it feel to see it in print?
- 3.Every family and friend group has stories that belong to more than one person. Reading this, did you think about a story of yours that someone else might say was theirs to tell?
- 4.The humor in this book does a lot of quiet emotional work. Was there a funny bit that landed softer or sadder than you expected, and did you like being caught off guard that way?
Going deep
- 1.By the end you have been let very far into someone's head. Did that closeness make you more forgiving of her, or more tired of her, and what does your answer say about how you treat the oversharers in your own life?
- 2.Without giving anything away: think about where she is emotionally in the last stretch of the book. If you could sit her down with a mug of something warm, what would you want to tell her, and what would you want to ask?
On the table & to sip
To eat
To sip
Run of show
Host tips
- Name the confidentiality rule out loud in the first five minutes: stories told tonight stay in the room. A book about oversharing earns a little protection.
- Do not chase the questions. If one person's family story eats fifteen minutes, that is a successful cozy night. You have eight questions and you only need five.
- Keep one low-effort escape hatch for anyone who does not want to share personally: let them answer about the narrator instead of themselves, no explanation needed.
Playlist
Soft-lit bedroom pop and warm acoustic confessionals: someone telling you everything at 1am and you do not want them to stop.
- 01 Motion Sickness - Phoebe Bridgers
- 02 Bags - Clairo
- 03 Nobody - Mitski
- 04 The Rip - Hatchie
- 05 Chinatown - Bleachers
- 06 Talk Too Much - COIN
- 07 Coffee - Sylvan Esso
- 08 Sweet - Cigarettes After Sex
Trivia
- 1.Who wrote Oversharing? (Cortney LaCorte.)
- 2.What broad genre does the title suggest and the book delivers: contemporary fiction with a comedic, confessional voice, or historical epic? (Contemporary fiction with a comedic, confessional voice.)
- 3.The word 'overshare' became common alongside which cultural shift? (The rise of social media and blogging, where personal disclosure became public by default.)
- 4.A story told closely from inside one character's head, in her own voice, is called what kind of narration? (First-person narration.)
- 5.What is the name for fiction driven more by a distinctive narrating voice than by intricate plot? (Voice-driven fiction.)
- 6.'TMI' is the internet shorthand for what phrase, and it is essentially a synonym for the book's title? (Too much information.)
- 7.Books like this are often shelved alongside which two adjacent categories in a bookstore? (Contemporary/women's fiction and romantic comedy.)
- 8.What do publishers call the short, punchy descriptive text on the back cover meant to hook a browser? (Blurb (or jacket copy).)
Bookmarks
Print, cut, and tuck one at every seat, a small keepsake from the night.
“Say the embarrassing part. Someone here needed to hear it.”
“Warm mug, cold phone, one honest sentence at a time.”
“Loved anyway, loud mouth and all.”
Rate the book
We hope the company was good and the conversation even better. Until the next chapter.