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Book Club Night - Cozy night

The Art Of Fighting

Cut along the dashed lines and pass the cards around the table.

Warm-up 1

What was your reading setup for this one (blanket, bus seat, kitchen table at midnight), and did the book feel like company or like a nudge?

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Warm-up 2

Was there a page early on where you thought, oh, she has met my family? No details needed, just tell us the feeling.

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Discussion 3

The book treats keeping the peace as its own kind of cost. Where in your life have you paid that bill quietly, and did reading about it feel like relief or like being caught?

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Discussion 4

Which idea in here would you most want to hand to a younger version of yourself, and what would you say while handing it over?

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Discussion 5

Is there someone in your life who fights well, in the good sense? What do they do that you have never been able to copy?

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Discussion 6

The book keeps insisting that conflict can be an act of care. Did that land as comforting, or did part of you resist it? Be honest, this is a soft room.

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Deep 7

By the time you reached the later chapters, had the book changed what you think you are actually afraid of when you avoid a hard conversation? Name the fear, not the story.

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Deep 8

If you could rewind one conversation from the past year and run it again using something you picked up here, what would you want to feel differently afterward? You can keep the who and what vague.

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