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The Emperor of Gladness

The Emperor of Gladness

Ocean Vuong
Cozy night

Ocean Vuong's second novel follows a young man adrift in a worn-down New England town who falls into an unlikely caretaking bond with an elderly woman, and finds a makeshift family among coworkers at a fast food restaurant. It is a tender, slow-burning book about who shows up for us when almost no one does.

Come Sit in the Warm Kitchen

We are reading Ocean Vuong's The Emperor of Gladness, and gathering for porridge, sliders, and sweet coffee. Bring your dog-eared pages and wear something you could nap in.

Reading level: Moderate Pages: 416

Best for: A club that likes to linger over beautiful sentences and does not mind a few quiet, teary moments between laughs

Discussion

Warm-up

  1. 1.Before we talk about the book at all: what did you make yourself to eat or drink while reading it, and did the book change your appetite at all?
  2. 2.Vuong writes the kind of sentences people underline. Find one passage you dog-eared and read it out loud to us, no explanation needed unless you want to give one.

Digging in

  1. 1.The novel is full of people taking care of each other without being asked. Was there a moment of quiet caretaking in these pages that reminded you of someone who once did that for you?
  2. 2.So much of this book happens in a town that has clearly seen better days. Did it make you homesick for a place, even an unglamorous one, and what do you miss about it?
  3. 3.The fast food workplace becomes something closer to a kitchen table. Have you ever found that kind of accidental family at a job, and what made it feel like home?
  4. 4.Vuong lets his characters be funny in the middle of hard circumstances. Which moment of humor caught you off guard, and did it comfort you or ache a little?

Going deep

  1. 1.This is a book about being needed. Without giving anything away about where things end up, did reading it shift how you think about being on either side of that, the one who cares or the one who is cared for?
  2. 2.Memory in this novel is slippery, and people hold onto stories that may or may not be exactly true. Is there a story in your own family that you have decided to keep believing anyway, and what would you lose if you let it go?

On the table & to sip

To eat

A big pot of chicken and rice porridge (cháo) with scallions and black pepper
The classic Vietnamese sick-day comfort food, the thing you make for someone you are taking care of. Simmers unattended while guests arrive.
Build-your-own diner sliders with a tray of crinkle-cut fries
A warm nod to the fast food counter at the heart of the book, scaled down to something you can set out on a platter and let people graze on.
Warm skillet cornbread with honey butter, plus a tin of store-bought butter cookies
Small-town New England church-supper food alongside the blue cookie tin that lives in so many immigrant grandmothers' houses. Low effort, high recognition.

To sip

Vietnamese coffee served hot with sweetened condensed milk (no alcohol)
Slow-dripped and sweet, a drink that insists you sit still for a few minutes. Make a big batch in a French press if the phin feels fussy.
Ginger and honey tea with a lemon wedge (no alcohol)
The thing you press into someone's hands when they are tired. Keep a kettle going all night.
Hot spiked cider with a splash of bourbon and a cinnamon stick
New England autumn in a mug, a little indulgent, easy to leave unspiked for anyone who prefers it.

Run of show

7:00
Door, mug, blanket
Hand everyone a warm drink before they take their coat off. Put the porridge pot and the cookie tin out immediately so nobody waits to eat.
7:20
Passage circle
Go around and have each person read one dog-eared line out loud. No commentary required. This is the warm-up and it does most of the work.
7:40
Sit down and eat
Move to the sliders and cornbread. Run the two warm-up questions here while people have food in their hands.
8:00
The main conversation
Work through the theme questions in whatever order the room wants. Skip any that are not landing. Let silences sit.
8:35
The two big ones
Pour fresh coffee or cider, then ask the deep questions. Keep the lights low and let answers go long.
9:05
Trivia, scorecards, soft landing
Light trivia as a palate cleanser, scorecards filled in, bookmarks handed out at the door with leftovers in foil.

Host tips

  • Tell people in advance that it is fine if they did not finish. This book is a mood more than a plot, and half-finished readers can still answer every question here.
  • Have tissues somewhere visible but not announced. A few of these questions open people up more than they expect.
  • Floor cushions, lamps instead of overheads, and a stack of throw blankets. Physical comfort is what makes the personal questions feel safe to answer.

Playlist

Low-lit and unhurried: fingerpicked guitar, soft piano, and a few aching voices, played quietly enough that people keep talking over it

  1. 01 Motion Sickness - Phoebe Bridgers
  2. 02 Harvest Moon - Neil Young
  3. 03 Re: Stacks - Bon Iver
  4. 04 Nightswimming - R.E.M.
  5. 05 Pink Rabbits - The National
  6. 06 Casimir Pulaski Day - Sufjan Stevens
  7. 07 Diễm Xưa - Khánh Ly
  8. 08 Hey Mama Wolf - Devendra Banhart

Trivia

  1. 1.The Emperor of Gladness is Ocean Vuong's first novel since which 2019 debut? (On Earth We're Briefly Gorgeous)
  2. 2.Before he wrote novels, Vuong was best known as what kind of writer? (A poet, including the collections Night Sky with Exit Wounds and Time Is a Mother)
  3. 3.In what year was The Emperor of Gladness published? (2025)
  4. 4.Vuong was born in Vietnam and raised in which US state, the region his fiction keeps returning to? (Connecticut)
  5. 5.In 2019 Vuong received what well-known fellowship, often nicknamed the 'genius grant'? (The MacArthur Fellowship)
  6. 6.Vuong's debut poetry collection won which major UK poetry prize in 2017? (The T. S. Eliot Prize)
  7. 7.Roughly how long is The Emperor of Gladness in print? (About 416 pages)
  8. 8.Which American publisher released the novel? (Penguin Press)

Bookmarks

Print, cut, and tuck one at every seat, a small keepsake from the night.

The Emperor of Gladness

“Someone kept the porch light on for you.”

The Emperor of Gladness
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The Emperor of Gladness

“Even a broken town feeds its own.”

The Emperor of Gladness
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The Emperor of Gladness

“Stay for the second cup.”

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Rate the book

Comfort level (did it hold you or wring you out?)☆☆☆☆☆
Sentences worth reading twice☆☆☆☆☆
Characters you wanted to feed☆☆☆☆☆
Lingering feeling the next morning☆☆☆☆☆
Reread-on-a-rainy-day factor☆☆☆☆☆
One word for how this book left me: ______________________
The line I kept coming back to: ______________________
Who in my life I thought about while reading: ______________________
That's a wrap
Thank you for coming

We hope the company was good and the conversation even better. Until the next chapter.