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Book Club Night - Cozy night

Elisabeth

Cut along the dashed lines and pass the cards around the table.

Warm-up 1

Before we talk about the book at all: where did you end up reading it, and did the place and the season start to blend into the story's atmosphere for you?

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Warm-up 2

This was written by a young man who would later become a filmmaker. What did the book look like in your head? Pick one image you kept seeing and describe it to us like a photograph.

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Discussion 3

Rohmer's people are forever talking themselves into and out of their own desires. Was there a moment where that felt tender and familiar to you rather than frustrating, a moment where you thought, oh, I have done exactly that?

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Discussion 4

There is a particular kind of loneliness in this book that is not unhappy, just unaccompanied. Did any of it feel comforting to read, like company? Or did it ask something of you?

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Discussion 5

The book sits in a France still catching its breath after the war, though it rarely says so loudly. How did that quiet, unspoken backdrop make you feel while you were reading?

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Discussion 6

What small, ordinary detail (a room, a walk, a stretch of weather, a conversation that went nowhere) stayed with you longest after you put the book down, and do you know why it chose you?

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Deep 7

By the last stretch, the distance between what someone wants and what they will admit to wanting has grown quite wide. Thinking about the book as a whole, where did your sympathy settle, and did it surprise you that it settled there?

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Deep 8

Rohmer spent his whole later career filming people who talk beautifully and choose badly. Having lived with this early book, what do you think he already understood about how people handle their own hearts, and is that a generous view of us or a hard one?

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